Love help: I miss my gf every second I’m not with her. - Help.com

It happens homie…
Same with me… difference is she can’t live without me! lol
Anyways, you have the right personality… I think…

how long you been together?

It’s great that you have each other
:)

That just shows how much you love and care for her, however you will not be able to see each other all the time, sadly it happens. At times she will probably need space as well and you will just need to learn to take it im afraid.

I think it’s great that you have someone you love and want to be with so much…. but when they become EVERYTHING and all you care about anymore, then it becomes a problem. Then it’s more like an addiction. A relationship is supposed to add to your life and bring you joy, but not BE your entire life. If it becomes all that matters to you, then you become too dependent on another person and too insecure without them. It’s good and healthy to be apart sometimes, in fact it actually makes your time together that much more enjoyable. It makes the relationship more interesting too if you both have other things to share with each other, other interests, rather than only being obsessed with THEM. I don’t know how long you’ve been together, and if it’s a fairly new relationship then maybe things will relax more later… but you do need to have other things in your life, and view her as a wonderful, loving place to come home to when your day is done.

Freind you need to chill a bit, you don’t want to smother her and, or loose your own identity, you’ll be no good to yourself or her if you can’t function when she isn’t there. I hope things work out. E.

This excerpt puts it well:

‘The best relationships occur when two whole people come together out of a desire to share their full, happy lives with one another. They are people who feel good about themselves yet desire a partner to walk thorough this world with and experience life together.

These are the relationships that succeed.

You can have that kind of relationship if you’re willing to focus on yourself.

To do this, you must make yourself a priority.

Take care of your health by eating well and exercising. Find your spiritual path. See a therapist to work through unresolved issues, if necessary. Do the things you love - reading, dancing, writing, watching movies, traveling around the world …Connect with friends. Learn all you can. Always be open to growth, be it intellectual, spiritual or emotional. And listen to your heart’s desire, your calling … and honor it.

Always make it a priority to DATE YOURSELF FIRST. Take yourself to museums, check out that hot new restaurant that just got written up in the Times, tackle that rock-climbing wall at the gym that you’ve been equally terrified and fascinated by. There’s no room for desperation when you’ve got a perfectly good date for every occasion …you.

As you focus on your own happiness you will be amazed at the transformation that starts to occur within you. You will feel comfortable in your own skin, and [you won’t approach your] relationship from a place of need, but rather one of strength. [Your boyfriend] will be drawn to your confidence and will do anything just to be able to spend time with you.

And although you may start out with [the perfect relationship] as your ultimate goal, in the end that will be just a happy by-product of a healthier, more content you.’

- Paige Parker, author of Dating Without Drama

I read dating without drama lol
mosts were parts very good, though there were some i didn;t agree with in that book, overall it was a worthwhile and interesing read, i might look through it again soon.