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My family (uncle, dad, grandparents, cousin) doesn’t communicate with eachother, and never spend quality time with eachother.

Their only interactions end in screaming and really bad moods. I had never noticed before because I don’t live with them. My grandpa is angry because my parents just got divorced, and my uncle just got married for the third time today. My dad is dating my really, really close friend, and my cousin thinks its very inappropriate to come and visit the family over the Persian New Year. I don’t know what else to say, except that my family cares less and less about eachother each day, and it breaks me apart because Persian families are generally closely knit together and worry about eachother 24/7. HELP!

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areacode705l offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
Friendship, ME, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (10 minutes after post)

if i was you talk to them by themsevles.

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crazyG offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 171 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (7 hours, 28 minutes after post)

areacode705l wrote:
if i was you talk to them by themsevles.

I don’t know about that! I don’t think it would work
I have the same family type, they are so much similar to your family I mean. They just hate eachother and think they are all right. And the rest are wrong, but I just think that whoever can go away from this atmosphere, he must go away. Because it is so much unhealthy place for anyone to grow in. I think they must learn from their own mistakes and if they can’t figure it out that they are all wrong, then no way you are going to convince them.
Well it might be better to leave them. Keep in touch with them, but try to live your life as well.
Be aware not to learn thier way of acting and of treating each other because you would learn that if you stayed so much time there.
Goodluck….

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