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I am in such serious financial situation.

I have a motgage and I am behing on payments, I owe the Irs 14,000, My electric is due to be shut off I am behing on everything. I alway was so good at making payments but I had no job for a while. i HAD A good job in the city but was terminated after my husband passed away (three months after he passed away) I moved to Upstate N.Y. and took on any job I could.
but the salary is so low and My bills are so high. My credit is now so bad. I cannot sleep. I am trying so hard but for every step foward I go back another 50 steps. Someone please help me.
Thank you.

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napster82 offline Unverified User #
Galt, ON, CA | 1 year, 8 months ago (25 minutes after post)

You could try refinancing. Or cut down on your bills and if your in deep trouble u migt want to think of bankrupsty. I would help u if i only knew your situation. Very sorry for your loss.

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 1 year, 8 months ago (57 minutes after post)

If you sold your house could you get out of debt and have enough money
to rent an apartment and find a good job.?

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 1 year, 8 months ago (57 minutes after post)

Can you take out a second mortgage?

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 1 year, 8 months ago (59 minutes after post)

Can you have somebody move in with you and pay rent?
Perhaps an older lady who needs a degree of extended care.

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 1 year, 8 months ago (1 hour after post)

As a matter of fact if you took in an older lady and took care of her
maybe she would not only pay rent but pay you a salary to take care of her.

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mfairel112 offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

hi i an a 50 year women who need help paying her bill been out of work an has lost my mother an have no were eles to turn lost mother an daughter .just need some help can some boby help me please can emale me at i> small>(email removed) /small> /i>

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mfairel112 offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

i an from phila my home no is 610-313-9129-please help me thank you

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