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my name is J.

Im 25 years old and i live in Florida. My mother has had the house we live in since before i was born. My father and her didnt work out, and this actually was his house before they got married. Her and my stepfather got together when i was about 6 and after 18 yrs got separated in 07. Now im 25 and have lived on my own, but coming back home because of my stepfathers departure hasnt been easy. I lost my job, and also my 27 year old brother and everyone in the family is looking at us. I had been on my own for three years and had no idea we were loosing this house. Now, its etched in stone i think that we will be moving out in less than 2 weeks. I wish i could have helped her more, but she never expressed how bad things were when I moved home. I guess im sad because i feel as if its not fair to be the blame for a problem that I didnt create because im unemployed. I just need a little encouragement since we will have to move out of my childhood home. Im not angry at my mother, but im upset because i cant help her, and defensive because I dont want to be the blame

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An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (40 minutes after post)

that is sadening.

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