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If you compliment a girl and she doesn’t seem like she’s interested or she acts shy, is she still flattered by the compliment?


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Goodfella offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (1 minute after post)

I’ve asked myself that question for a long time , I’m still waiting for a truthful answer.

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anoni200 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
Eschborn, 05, DE | 1 year, 8 months ago (3 minutes after post)

I think so. it’s hard for me to think of a person that wouldn’t be flattered when you flatter him. it’s natural.
it happenes many times to me that I don’t show that I am flattered because of suprize or shyness but I think about it afterwards and feel good.

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dambrotmar offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
US | 1 year, 8 months ago (7 minutes after post)

She just told me she was going on vacation for 2 weeks and I said I won’t see you for two weeks.

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Janeywaney offline Verified User (1 year, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Crickadarn, Y9, GB | 1 year, 8 months ago (8 minutes after post)

of course, unless shes amazingly up herself.

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chantalhaki offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 1 year, 8 months ago (24 minutes after post)

anoni is definately right. sometimes girls dont show their emotions because they dont know what to say back to that you know but of course shes flattered. Girls love to be complimented

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lkjs offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Northbrook, IL, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (29 minutes after post)

Women are scared a lot… You have to make sure they’re not scared so compliment them and i agree with chantalhaki, she is flattered.

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gimli offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Marietta, GA, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (33 minutes after post)

Hold on a sec…SINCERE compliments are appreciated! If she thinks you have ulterior motives they probably will not be appreciated.

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spiritedsoul offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Sandgate, G5, GB | 1 year, 8 months ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

if she didn’t feel flattery then she’s prob some1 who wouldn’t feel anything! lol

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JesusMurphy offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (1 hour, 7 minutes after post)

Oh, I love a good compliment every now and then! Unless it’s something like “nice rack”.
Tips: compliments about eyes, clothes, jewelry, hair and even teeth are appreciated.
Compliments about boobs, butt and legs (

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JesusMurphy offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

[quote JesusMurphy!]Oh, I love a good compliment every now and then! Unless it’s something like “nice rack”.Tips: compliments about eyes, clothes, jewelry, hair and even teeth are appreciated.Compliments about boobs, butt and legs (

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JesusMurphy offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

^^wtf is up with my replies getting cut off?? o.0

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Ciwa offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Athleague, 24, IE | 1 year, 8 months ago (1 hour, 32 minutes after post)

she probably is flattered that you said it, she just doesnt really believe its true!!!

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (8 months, 3 weeks after post)

i had down a girl ..i said she doesnt have a cute smile ..she has yellow teeth . now she is angry …pls write me a good compliment about teeth..n say wat shoud i do now ??

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sabuz_hasa offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (8 months, 3 weeks after post)

i dumed a girl *

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nickfoel offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (1 year, 1 month after post)

nice ***** lips, i can see them through your pants

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