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what was the reason why she broke up with you?

hey le i love u *****

Well you can’t force her to love you again, I think that there really is no way to get over her other than through time. You said you’ve talked to her about this, so she knows how you feel, I dont think you can really do more than that.

Was there something that broke you two up? perhaps a bad breakup?

are there any other girls you are interested in? The reason why I say that is that your ex has lost interest in you. You need to face that and move on unless she gives you an indication to believe otherwise in the future. Focus on other girls. I know it is so painful to break up with someone, but focus on your future. Surely you will eventually meet someone else and even forget about her. Give yourself time to get over her. I know it is painful, everyone has to go through a break up at some point in their life. You are not alone.

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She still loves you?

oh!! if she still loves you there is hope for the relationship then. Give her some time. Believe me, I am a woman I know, when a woman loves a man its not easy to say goodbye, I have a feeling she will come around. Give her some time.

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hey she still loves you…there is hope!!! Take heart!!! Don’t give up on her. If she told you she still loves you she does not want you going out with others and she does not want you to give up on her. Give her some time to come around again. In the mean time, just be kind to her if you see her.

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If you can come up with the money,borrow from mom or dad?, why dont you send her some flowers?

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If she still loves you- ask her!

express your love to her in a nice card that you send to her house. Tell her you are not going to give up on her and that you love her very much.

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be sincere with her.
Show her your heart.
Girls like that.

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girls like flowers and cards

Yup- agreed. Pour yourself out, if she knows of your depression as you say, if she says no she’ll be really respectful of it

…and jewelry

YOu need to take a chance and just pour out your heart to her. If she refuses that is her decision, but at least you can say you tried, right?

lol mercy we got the point :)

lol

i dont think thats his problem, he just needs to pour himself out as well as in real life as he does here….its about practicing what you preach…and i happen to be terrible at that lol.

from the post that anonymous wrote I see she has hurt you a lot. Perhaps she is not worthy of your love and you can get someone who will not hurt you.

she is right, you are a cute guy, there will be other women, perhaps others who will respect you more. You deserve it.

on the other hand, people in love will hurt eachother, it happens in all relationships. You need to decide if she is really for you.

so are you agreeing with anonymous that perhaps you can do better than her?

Meh dont get so down because of being single- Your friends can be just as much of an emotional help.

how far?

i dont think a long distance relationship is going to make you feel better, it may just make you more paranoid.

I agree with Urgdu…your cute why dont you focus on a new girl?

you could probably get a lot of girls to like you

but I know breaking up hurts a lot

how old are you and her?

I think you two being good friends would help, as you’ve both gone through your fair share of depression, but a relationship probably isnt a good idea. Being really close and helping each other out isnt a bad thing, especially if you want her to stop cutting =/

I think best friends>more than just friends here.

I see you are a football player. How about trying to date a cheerleader, maybe someone a little more emotionally healthy?

you wont know unless you try. go for it! dating someone else can get your mind off your ex.

I dont think that anyone is “better” than anybody else….I think it may be that you just want to help her, and you love helping her, not necessarily her, but i may be wrong. Don’t attach yourself to this “league” idea, you must be the change you wish to see in the world!:) Get out there and date who you want.

perhaps there is a cheerleader who has a secret crush on you? You never know. Do you have your eye on any of the Junior Varity cheerleaders? your age? I think you should take a risk and ask one of them out.

you have to do something to get your mind off your ex…anything.

it does not have to be a cheerleader, there must be some other girl at your school you think is cute and nice. Your ex is not the only girl who would date you believe me, your adorable.

There are clases everywhere. But who cares, go between them:) Dont let them judge you:)

have confidence in yourself. Take a risk.

prove to yourself that there are good, adorable, other nice girls to date…I mean come on, you can find someone who is more emotionally stable for sure than a cutter

i dont think thats much of an issue, dont be dissing cutters here, or devalue them, he wants to help, theres no crime in that:)

would you want to be married to a cutter and have a cutter be the mother of your children? I know your young, but I suggest you not date anyone you would not marry

of course I love cutters

goodnight

sorry but did i miss something coz ur saying u love her n she loves you then wheres the problem?!{confused}

move on. date someone else. believe me it helps. Also not talking to her, or seeing her EVERYDAY also helps.

everyones saying to forget her so just do that

i think u miss what you had. only time can heal the pain. good luck

believe me I went threw this I thought he was IT I thought he was my life. I soon found out he isnt and he was just MY FIRST BOYFRIEND. and It seemed like real love I was just like you…I wanted an answer to make him love me make him want to be with me and I couldnt understand why if he “loved” me as much as he said he did then why not be with me? I’ll admit it took almost 2 years for me to completely get over him. He has a new girlfriend that he “loves” yet cheats on her all the time. I now think of it as dodgeing a bullet. You will get over this. but if the oppertunity comes where BOTH of you want to be back together then take that chance, but dont waste your life waiting for it.

I now have a boyfriend I really care about, that “first boyfriend” has tought me alot about relationships, but if I had a chance now I wouldnt even give him a second glance.

you will get over this, you just have to give it time.

talk to her. come up with all the reasons you broke up together and fix them

I know this isn’t what you WANT to hear, but I think it’s what you NEED to hear. Get over her. She doesn’t want you back. Cherish what you had and make new memories for yourself. It’s the healthiest thing for the both of you at this point.

go out and have, fun, i guarantee she will come running bacck to u, im not guaranteeing that it will be forever or nething but she will.