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6 months, 3 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)
have you talked to him? i understand where your comming from girl. did you love him?
A friend of mine once said, “To forgive is to move forward”
Heck she’s not really a friend, an acquaintance, but those words stand strong in my mind.
After this mistake is over, and she’s broken his heart or whatever, then you’ll be in control of the tides if he dares to come back to you.
Then you can do one of two things, you can toy with him or you can take him for the keeping.
Thats my 2 cents.
I know exactly how you feel. It’s torture. I have ok days and awful days thinking about the guy I’ll never be with that I love to bits. You can’t make him change his mind, you can’t make him want you, you can’t make him feel like you do. I know that but I still don’t accept it. I hope you have better luck.
You will find someone who deserves you, I’m sure.
Good luck. xx
awww, we should join a group or something because i’m going through the same thing!! it really horrible, and I know that love can take over, and you do all sorts of stupid and horrible things, it really really tough, I think its the hardest thing a person can ever do. I really can’t answer your question because I would be a hipocrit if I said to leave it, be his friend when you are over him, because thats not what i’m doing. But, I think that what we got to do. ITS REALLY HARD!!! ain’t it?
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Yeah we should.heh
Its really hard to let go when that person brought so much to your life in positive ways.
I know, they are your best friend and you are really mad at them at first but after a while you really miss their company and want it back sooooo much! Its insane!
xxxxxx
Yeah & when that person is hardly around its worse. Its hard to concentrate on anything else when so many things remind you of that guy.
yeah! we’ll get through it someday!!!
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From my experience that is nearly impossible
well i dont know coz i just broke up with my guy and we were together for 2yrs i still love him but its over and i just cant get over him i guess i love him too much. any ideas on how can move on
Just thought I would update you all. I am no longer friends with this guy… I felt it best to cut all ties as it wasn’t doing me any good to remain in each others lives.
grl im proud of you how dii you manage to let him go coz i just cant hey
That must have been hard but I’m really pleased for you. Takes strength to make yourself move on. Good on you!
You’ll find someone who deserves you :)
popsychin wrote:
grl im proud of you how dii you manage to let him go coz i just cant hey
I did it by e-mail. Was the 2nd of April. I couldn’t do it by phone or IM as I was not strong enough for that. It took strength to do it but I am still weak. I have cried myself to sleep since. I am in no better shape than the day when everything happened. I guess its not so easy to get over someone when they were so much a part of your life. I still feel empty. WHen I told him I felt like part of me had died he said it was just an illusion. How could he even say that to me? I guess he never cared & it was just one big lie. I wish he were just as miserable as I am but its the jerks who always end up succeeding leaving the good people in the dust.
Nensix wrote:
That must have been hard but I’m really pleased for you. Takes strength to make yourself move on. Good on you!
You’ll find someone who deserves you :)
Thank you. However I am done with wanting to ever be with anyone. I cannot handle this anymore & it will happen again. I do not really trust anybody anymore. *shrug*
Can someone help me get over a guy. I feel exactly the same as you guys. I cannot stop crying. This guy has made me fall hard, And its like he didn’t even stumble and just wanted to screw me the whole time. He has made me feel so positive about life, and now it feels like he’s ripped down the walls protecting my heart, Taken it out and stuck pins into it for his own amusement. Or played with it carelessly.
He was one of my ONLY close friends. I feel like grabbing some rope from the shed, And hanging myself to the nearest tree. And I can’t stop the urges.
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I actually got over him. I was crying & then suddenly I thought wait a second here..why am I laying here crying over a guy who didn’t see the good person that I am & never gave me the chance I deserved. Furhermore, I realized he has said some cruel things which outweigh the good & I am actually free now. Its liberating & I had no idea it would happen this soon or this easy.
That’s my girl! Good for you!
That’s brilliant! I hope you keep that attitude. Never let a guy bring you down.
I also hope you do learn to trust again. Not every guy lacks a heart (honestly!).
Anyway good for you!
Thanks guys! From now on if a guy doesn’t want me then I will just be like this.. oh well..NEXT!! There are plenty of good guys in this world I just haven’t come across them yet. lol I’m sure it’ll happen one day though.=)
Omg !!! Its definatly really hard … I’m so inlove with my ex … We broke up 2 days ago .. I feel like I’m going to die I can’t stop thinking about him and I can’t stop crying … I called him like 40 times he won’t even pick up or text me back … I wish there was a way to just forget him … This is very painful !!!
40 times? That’s excessive. Don’t chase after a guy.. nobody is worth chasing after.
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