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Help me, I have a detrimenal problem

I worry about everythign to the extent of rage or depression and being in a long distance relationship, hanging on everyword said in chat and over-analyzing it I have the capacity to constantly be worrying. Its not paranoid to me though, it seems so real, every fear. I live in a constant cycle of extreme happiness and then fear and worry and then to top it off I have this problem where i just all of a suden leave my body so to speak, I completley get outside myself, say things I dont mean, run my mouth.. .lose all empathy and feeling.

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ikesgirllikehi offline Unverified User #
Buffalo, NY, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (51 minutes after post)

ok there is exactly where i am…i am exactly in that situation…the thing is…

nothing is ever going to be perfect, lol..i was in a long distance relationship…..it didn’t work out for me…i missed him so much all the time and i could never be with him because he was so far…i go through this empty feeling all the time…i get so sad and depressed…i just walk int he snow…bare feet…and run..i run…i never want it to end. The freedom of just being away from it all..
but you know what? none of those things made me feel better once i went back inside…you know what? you just need to talk to somebody about it… i know how much stuff hurts…i know….trust me…and you see? life goes on..don’t waste your time being sad… BE CRAZY!!!!!! its fun! but it can’t always be like that…talk to me! i help you =]

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Wrestlemaniac!!! offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 19 #
Drayton Plains, MI, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

i agree with ikes

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (1 hour, 6 minutes after post)

ikes you sound a bit like my gf, she actually does the same thing.

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Snar offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 33 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

THing is I cant be crazy like that, even in what I enjoy I’m a bit sober and melancholic.

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