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Lately, I’ve had a really bad attitude towards my parents.

I don’t mean to snap but they just tell me to do something and I give the answer back with an attitude. They are really frustrated with me and I don’t know how to stop this habit. Any tips on fixing the problem?

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Wrestlemaniac!!! offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 19 #
Drayton Plains, MI, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (0 minutes after post)

try to stay calm dont get mad

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Snar offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 40 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (5 minutes after post)

I know the problem, its one familiar to me. As a teenager you just have a hormonal capacity to anger quickly which you need to accept and try adn temper with level-headedness. Try adn explan to your parents that your remorseful and dont act out on purpose but on impulse.

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Nensix offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Nottingham, J8, GB | 1 year, 8 months ago (5 minutes after post)

You want to fix the problem which means you obviously care about them a lot. Maybe instead of telling what to do, they could make a list of things you should be getting done and you can do it at your own pace (but still do it!). Or perhaps they could be persuaded to ask nicely if you promise not to snap at them.

Speak to them about it, say you’re sorry and you dont want to snap at them, they will respect that and it will help build up a healthy relationship with them.

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xoxo2bambam2oxo offline Unverified User #
Sterling, VA, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (9 minutes after post)

It almost just seems like when i tell my parents how I feel and that I don’t mean to snap they just yell at me. Of course me being as sensitive as I am I end up crying and it just solves nothing.

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Snar offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 40 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Well thats not fair of them at all, I really am losing any sympathy I had for them.

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xoxo2bambam2oxo offline Unverified User #
Sterling, VA, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (11 minutes after post)

Since there is a lot going on between us traveling for me playing sports, my sister wanting to hang out with her friends and my parents hecktic work schedule, there is so much stress. I think that may cause some of my anger but I understand that when something needs to be done they are going to tell me. I just snap!

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Jack offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (24 minutes after post)

This is all normal Bambam. Life is so stressful! Thats why people take holidays :)

Here are some tips you might like:

Maybe go with your parents to the movies or something to chill out so its not all about doing things.

Also maybe try to relax when you are home. Its your safehaven. The place where you can hide from the world and the only ones there are your parents who love you.

Focus on what you want and remember that the hectic stress will pay off in the end. You’ll be a great sports person among other things.

Also, you HAVE to help out and do your chores. Its your responsibility. If you dont like the chores you have to move out of home as soon as you are an adult. Plan it out. But you still have to do your chores until then.

Thats what I think anyway :)

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cool_carrie13 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
GB | 1 year, 8 months ago (30 minutes after post)

I have had similar problems myself…it had a lot to do with bottling things up, and I ended up letting it all out on my parents with snappy retorts etc.
You need to let out all your stress - I find writing a diary helps so much, or just being alone and crying - I know it sounds stupid, but afterwards my head just feels so much clearer, and I feel more at peace.

Go do something that makes you happy, think about good things going on in your life, and hopefully you should be feeling a lot more positive in yourself. When you are feeling positive you won’t feel the need to snap at anyone - you’ll be a pleasure to be around :P hehe.

I hope something useful cam out of that rubbish ;)

:)

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xoxo2bambam2oxo offline Unverified User #
Sterling, VA, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (32 minutes after post)

Not only do I feel like I’m filled with stress it has actually hurt my health. I was having back problems not too long ago so I had my mom take me to the doctor. The muscles were so tight in my back from so much stress I could have torn anything with the slightest move. I am hoping that just relaxing will be my biggest help it just seems that when I snap it just adds more stress.

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cool_carrie13 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
GB | 1 year, 8 months ago (38 minutes after post)

Yeah, stress does do that - massages actually do help so much!

REEELAX!

You will feel so much better for it :) Just take a day off everything, and do whatever you feel like doing at the time - go out with your friends, watch your favorite t.v. show, watch a film, but whatever you do have fun!!

:)

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matthe offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (2 months, 1 week after post)

To anyone who knows why I am agry I am in grade 11B and I have just snaped at my tuter, school mates, teachers and parents. I have not been away for months from school and home grade 11 is stress full for me and I would love to have help as I want to go clubing, smoke and kill myself or harm others around me.

And I am only 17 years old

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little_l-o- offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (1 year, 6 months after post)

i have the same thing you problay need concoling or help

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