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Feeling like love is the only thing that can make you happy…

with out it you feel depressed, lonely, and worthless…With it you feel happy as ever and your afriad of loseing it. I feel so alone…like no one cares about me…no one wants to know who i am and what i feel…i feel like ill never find someone to give all this love i have inside me too.
I’m just looking for people that can give me some words of wisdom…or some people that wanna be friends.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (11 minutes after post)

i know how your feeling. i have a gf. but its the same thing. i dont wanna lose her because i dont know what id do without her. when i wasnt going out with anyone, i felt lonely and that no one cared about me. ever since i started goin out with her, ive been happy. and other people have noticed that as well. my relationship was unexpected. oneday i met her and we got along. dont go out there searching for someone to make you happy. try to make yourself happy by doing other things and hopefully the right girl will come your way. just be patient and enjoy what you have now before its gone. dont worry about finding someone to make you happy. you need to make yourself happy.

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ihatesomeon offline Unverified User #
Beaumont, TX, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (23 minutes after post)

i just seperated with the love of my life.
and you just expressed exactally how i feel.
i began cutting again right afterward…

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (23 minutes after post)

i think that every guy on the face of a planet looking for a girl must know what you feel.

its terrible, isnt? it can make you feel like there really isnt a point to life, without someone.

what are the rest of us gonna do? to this, i have no answer.
sit back, enjoy what you can in life and just talk to people. what else is there to be done? as long as your being social… youll probably find someone.

oh, and have you ever noticed the more unique a person is, and away from the “crowd” they are, is the harder it is to find someone? Or is it just me who thinks this? well, if its true, then i guess those people are just the hardest to approach or something… cause im almost sure of this.

dont give up hope. im betting everything on the idea that i will find someone, so you do the same.

good luck
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Xeno Dragon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 69 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (1 hour, 16 minutes after post)

I don’t know… with it, I feel like I’m under the constant stress of keeping it. When I’m single, I’m pretty carefree regarding relationships. Maybe it’s just me, but I’d say relationships are a ****load more stressful and draining than everyday life is without them, and everyday life is dificult enough as it is.

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mike_jj offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Charlottetown, PE, CA | 1 year, 8 months ago (1 hour, 44 minutes after post)

I know i have to be happy with myself before i can expect others to be happy with me…to love me…want to get to know me. I just…i dont know why i cant…
hmmm…im not a social person at all…im really shy and i dont think i have a shred of self confidence, i dont have many friends…and its hard for me to trust people.
I know i have to change myself…i just dont know where to start.
Its so weird…how happy i feel when someone lets me in and trust me with everything and you know your really important to them cause of it. Its the best feeling ever…the feeling of being needed. ya…so is love lol…when i feel loved i feel like theres nothing i cant do im so happy.
as for the cutting urself thing…all you have to do is find something to live for…

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (1 hour, 51 minutes after post)

mike, thats how i am. im not the most outgoing person. im somtimes shy, and dont have that many true friends and dont trust people that easily. we do kno we need to change, but its hard. with me, my gf help me with that, because ever since ive been with her, i barely have any of those problems, other than the trust one.

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Leonardtown, MD, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (2 hours, 4 minutes after post)

Hang in there. I’m with ya. I have actually never been in a relationship. Ever. Kinda pathetic, I think. But When you do know someone, and they let you in, it feels like life is amazing. So I know your pain. Without love, this world is a much colder place.

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Garag, 19, IN | 1 year, 8 months ago (1 day after post)

you are right on that……u need to love urself b4 others can love u……….

& without love …lyf is monochromatic….stagnant….void…etc…

just hang in there….let time be the decider….

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mike_jj offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Charlottetown, PE, CA | 1 year, 8 months ago (1 day, 17 hours after post)

yeah…i been kinda depending on that to solve my problems…when im finally with my gf i think things will be better and she will help me do more stuff and get out there. Well thx for the help people, i think im just going to wait till life gets good :).

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Garag, 19, IN | 1 year, 8 months ago (1 day, 18 hours after post)

goood luck mike…..!!!

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