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How do you know if you are really in love with someone?


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Narcissus offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (2 minutes after post)

if you ever have to question whether is it love or is it not …..you can tell it’s not real

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1 year, 8 months ago (3 minutes after post)

you just do. love is hard to explain. some ways to tell if you are in love with someone is if everytime your talking to them or with them, you are the happiest you can be. you always wanna be with them. you also know your in love when you feel that connection between you. you dont have any problems communicating.

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JennyLove offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Malakoff, A8, FR | 1 year, 8 months ago (7 minutes after post)

Bailio wrote:
if you ever have to question whether is it love or is it not …..you can tell it’s not real

Wow, that is…just an amazing answer. Thank you so much!

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cattail offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
Newark, NJ, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Yep…. great answer!!

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james_liverpool_uk offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 16 #
Southport, L8, GB | 1 year, 8 months ago (9 minutes after post)

Depends…
If it’s someone you don’t know so well, you know if you’re really in love because every time they’re round you you end up doing something really stupid and feel like a complete dope. And whenever you try talking to them you can’t think what to say and end up saying something really stupid.
But if it’s a good friend you’ve fallen in love with, you can tell you’ve fallen in love with them bcos they always say ‘Isn’t it great that we’re just friends and don’t have any stupid bf/gf stuff going on…’ just as you open your mouth to say ‘I think I love you.’
What makes you think you might not be in love?

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lunadoeeyes offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (10 minutes after post)

you can be yourself and not even the distance of time and life makes a difference

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Narcissus offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (12 minutes after post)

thank you

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ihatesomeon offline Unverified User #
Beaumont, TX, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (18 minutes after post)

james_liverpool_uk wrote:
Depends…
If it’s someone you don’t know so well, you know if you’re really in love because every time they’re round you you end up doing something really stupid and feel like a complete dope. And whenever you try talking to them you can’t think what to say and end up saying something really stupid.
But if it’s a good friend you’ve fallen in love with, you can tell you’ve fallen in love with them bcos they always say ‘Isn’t it great that we’re just friends and don’t have any stupid bf/gf stuff going on…’ just as you open your mouth to say ‘I think I love you.’
What makes you think you might not be in love?

not at all….

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ihatesomeon offline Unverified User #
Beaumont, TX, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (19 minutes after post)

that is like, 4th grade “love”.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 month, 3 weeks after post)

i fell for him the moment i laid eyes on him and we’ve been closer than close hes the first guy i’ve ever really opened my self up to and i don’t know what to do about it when we took him back home yesterday to houston i cried all the way home and even after i got home i just couldn’t stop even if i wanted to it felt like i was losing my best friend forever like i’d never see him again i might not seeing as were both in the arny he going one way i’m going another and i can’t stop it from happening we’ve talked about getting married and having kids we know were made for each other even though he 19 im 18 we know its real but it won’t be easy when were both people in the military he’ll be stationed somewhere and i’ll be stationed somewhere and i feel like my heart is ripped in two pieces like theres a piece of me missing when hes gone. please someone if you read this i really need advice

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cattail offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
Newark, NJ, US | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 month, 3 weeks after post)

*hugs* I’m so sorry…. that is really hard and I guess all you can do is try to stay strong and hope that you will return to each other again!! You can keep in touch with letters and so forth in the meantime?? Keep the love alive, and I hope you do end up getting married…

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cattail offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
Newark, NJ, US | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 month, 3 weeks after post)

You might want to make a separate post on this and get some more responses!!

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lunadoeeyes offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 month, 3 weeks after post)

breath… If you are meant for each other the distance really means very little. Technology is a beautiful thing, cell phones inter net even snail mail is better. He as the other piece of your hart and if this is as strong as you say you have the other piece of his hart. Distance just means you can not touch It does not mean you can not communicate
Stay strong

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softballcutiesv offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (9 months, 2 weeks after post)

uyjuju

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softballcutiesv offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (9 months, 2 weeks after post)

i promise you will know when your in love. its amazing. i’m deff. in love with my boyfriend. you get this amazing feeling and everytime he kisses me i get butterflies and it feels amazing. you know when your “in love” with somebody. *best feeling in the world*

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