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I don’t think this it true, I know your upset cos the person you care about doesnt love you, but you can’t just give up on love because of one girl!

You will meet someone who wants you 4 being you, pretending to b someone else isnt prooving anything to anyone, and fyi gangsta drug dealers are def not cool she’s jus stupid- i don’t think i’d wanna go out wit someone like that

Try to search somewhere else?

raaa mayb u shud move to a nicer suburb??!! you sound like a decent bloke i wouldnt get too bumped about it, you just havent met ‘her’ yet.

mayb take a step back and try not lookin for someone, give them a chance to find you

itsmag wrote:
Try to search somewhere else?

yeah hoochie mammas arnt cool

It is true… most men are raised to be gentlemen, and then we are told the nice guy always finishes last. It is also true that us nice guys do see many women going for the “bad boy”, it is very frustrating.

The thing is that most women mature faster than us men, and they are ready for a relationship before many men are. Women also tend to be a bit more emotional then men, and feelings mean alot to them… they desire passion. Well, in us young men, romantic passion is not that easy to find, so a woman will substitute the passion of a “bad boy”. Most do not stay with the bad boy once the guys know how to show romantic passion which is what the women want in the first place.

You know what? Nice guys might finish last but at least they finish…. bad boys tend to go to jail, or burn out early in life.
Bright blessings ~ Richard

I’m a guy who like to cuddle and share emotions, and I’ve dated lots of women who feel the same way. It sounds to me like you’re not finding the right women. But they are out there - and they’re busy hunting for guys like you.

i was once your age and felt the same feelings, trust me it’s okay there is a poet named khalil gibran who said life is a tear and a smile. if you cry today you will smile on another day. hold on be strong it gets better.

I am so sorry.You know what there is nothing wrong with what your going through. If you ask me your weeding the bad ones out. Simply put it’s their lose. A gentleman is the way to be that’s how you’ll find the woman for you. You have to be yourself a relationship will never work unless you are your true self. Sometimes the people we want are the worst person for us. You may not like what you get save yourself get away from her. You never find someone when you are on the hunt. So fall back follow your everyday schedule. Do you and the rest will follow. All it takes is that moment when eyes meet and you ms.uhaveyettomeet will know.

Thats the thing though, her Mum knows and her Dad won’t care because he’s a T**T who lives in Wales. Not even her Mum can convince her to eat and she’s a phsycologist. She’s the most stubborn person :|

I realize that I’m only a few years shy of being a teenager to say this, but many girls in their teens (and even after their teens) really have a warped view about relationships. Boys are like this as well though so maybe change what I said to just “teenagers in general.” Many times the relationship itself, although subconciously, is looked at like a game in order to not get hurt. Unfortunately you seem to keep getting attracted to girls who definitely have problems with vunerability which is why they seem to only like you if you “act like a gangsta.” Don’t give up on love just yet. It’s upsetting to see someone so young becoming jaded so quickly. The best thing to do is to try and put all your past relationships behind you and don’t drag the negative debris from them into your new relationships. If that’s how you’re feeling about a girl, tell her. It’s simple. If she’s worth your time, she’ll hear you out, realize what she’s doing and your sincerity will really make a positive mark on her and hopefully help her break down some of those walls that she has guarding her.
Don’t give up.

- ms. j

yo 4 real not all girls are that way, and if you seem to keep meeting the same type then yea its you, try to change your type of girl you look at. But I swear not all girls are bad, just most of them..lol