Umm.. I’m not smart but you can talk to me. If you want…
To be a frind all you have to do is be yourself, be there for people.
What do youmean by needing the human emotiona mental support?
Ok. Who are you? Thanks for replying, *pats you on back*
why you’re alive?
there’s no pre-determined reason, your life is what you make of it.
you can always find somebody to talk to here, so if you feel like it, let us know what’s wrong.
LazyDaze~ wrote:
To be a frind all you have to do is be yourself, be there for people.What do youmean by needing the human emotiona mental support?
Even when i am nice to people, they dont return kindness like at work. I try to be friendly but all i get is nothing
THE Captain Setto wrote:
why you’re alive?there’s no pre-determined reason, your life is what you make of it. you can always find somebody to talk to here, so if you feel like it, let us know what’s wrong.
Nothing gives me Joy
Maybe you are trying too hard to be liked…?
If you try too much then people wil wonder what you are after, as I said just be yourself, that way the people who want to be around you will be there because they like you and not who you are trying to be.
Just be nice to people mate. then they will soon say “Hey john, thats guy is sound to me” and he mate will say “Yes, he is to me aswell”
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look at people who are well liked and popular and learn what it is that makes them popular and try and be more like it, or just be yourself if you have a strong enough personality and don’t give a crap what anyone else thinks or does
LazyDaze~ wrote:
Maybe you are trying too hard to be liked…?
If you try too much then people wil wonder what you are after, as I said just be yourself, that way the people who want to be around you will be there because they like you and not who you are trying to be.
Geez ha i DONT try to be liked. I just act how i want to act, how i would want someone to treat me. good point though, maybe they think i am being too friendly or helpful so they think i am after something.. Two thumbs up
nothing? nothing at all?
maybe you’re not trying the right things. or maybe you’re in a low phase right now. everyone goes through times where they feel down, and even if things seem to be giving you no happiness, it might just be that you need to do something new.
with the friends thing, it doesn’t matter how nice you are to some people, they won’t return the kindness. but never give up being kind to people, you will get the kindness back in some way eventually.
have you ever tried writing poetry or any other form of expressive writing? sometimes just typing up a rant gets the pent up feelings out.
Their is no place in this world where you’ll go and just everybody will accept you, I face this circumstances everyday. And I know getting could be sometimes tricky but you’ve got to have patience and being nice is always a priority. Just ignore them.
nameless wrote:
Their is no place in this world where you’ll go and just everybody will accept you, I face this circumstances everyday. And I know getting could be sometimes tricky but you’ve got to have patience and being nice is always a priority. Just ignore them.
The problem is NO ONE accepts me. Not even my family would accept me for who i really am.. GEEZ! Good comment! Now i just realized all this time i was thinking i wanted to be accepted, just by someone.. But the fact is it doesnt matter what i do, people dont accept me now and they wont accept me when i become who i want.. I know what i am , i know what i want to be.. But in the back of my mind i know people wont accept it.. Either way the end result is the same.. THank you!
what are you and what do you want to be?
Heey your family may be right for not accepting. Whats so important that your family refuse you?
The problem is not that no one wants you, their is something more your not telling, is their any type of behavior that people refuse?
I want to be everything that i can be. I am the ultimate human machine.
sansceriph wrote:
what are you and what do you want to be?
nameless wrote:
Heey your family may be right for not accepting. Whats so important that your family refuse you?The problem is not that no one wants you, their is something more your not telling, is their any type of behavior that people refuse?
I am blunt i have been told.. INsensitive sometimes
When i said considerate in prior post i meant i am considerate now before i wasnt..But in the past i was considerate but no one returned the token so i changed
Wow.. this post so is not making since to me. somethin screwy goin on..
AmandaLynn wrote:
Wow.. this post so is not making since to me. somethin screwy goin on..
Yup that is me Screwy :-d
Thanks for posting, even though it was of no relevance to my circumstance
zero, you sound pretty confused, and that’s common on help.com. just stick around and get to know some people here. tackling your people problem head-on is not easy, and i think that this post itself is evidence of a possible wider problem in your life of miscommunication. i could be wrong. anyway, help some of us, and maybe we’ll get to understand each other better.
sansceriph wrote:
zero, you sound pretty confused, and that’s common on help.com. just stick around and get to know some people here. tackling your people problem head-on is not easy, and i think that this post itself is evidence of a possible wider problem in your life of miscommunication. i could be wrong. anyway, help some of us, and maybe we’ll get to understand each other better.
I think i am confused because i want to do so much and i dont know where to start.
I have hopeless syndroym(spelled right?)
Yes i think so too i think people dont understand me very well. I am a very confusing person to talk to.. I know that from the way my manager talks to me.
old hindu proverb…”watever happens….happens for the good”…..believe in it….chiLL
Zero,
You said that you use to be insensitive and inconsiderate. Good for you for changing that. But maybe it will take time for the people that dealt with the old you, maybe they still have issues with you and their angry, hurt or whatever and still have feelings and will need a little time to see the great change in you. Keep trying to show you have changed. It will come in time.
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