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Does anyone ever feel so alone all u want is a hug

from some one anyone who cares about u just to embrace u and hold u close to them but your ether to shy to ask them or don’t have anyone how can i get close enough to some one real to hug them and not just have this hollow feeling in my chest its kind hard to explain its quite awkward to talk about this but I’ve feet this way for a wile and i don’t know what to do :( can any one help me i just need a hug from some one >< i don’t know what else i just feel insignificant to others I’m to shy to ask anyone

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lanjack3 offline Verified User (7 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)
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6 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

if olny there were free hugs were i am atm i’m to shy to go up to one of thos people anyways >< D:

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lanjack3 offline Verified User (7 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

you know i use to be like that. but then i thought what do i have to loose by going up to a person i dont even know. nothing. shy is not something your stuck with forever its something you can work on. go to your mirror and just start talking to your self it will help i promise.

you dont have to be anonymous where all friends here

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6 months, 3 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

Lol i know but :/ i ono DX i’m just weird i guess

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TUVIX offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Alexandria, ON, CA | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

Ya I feel lonly and want love all the time I sometimes feel so lonly I cry a night. If you find a simple solution let me know.

I need love too.

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lanjack3 offline Verified User (7 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

its ok i guess so what is making you sad.

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Bickley, B8, GB | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

alone, is all there is, you and yourself, and thats how it will always be, think u lucky your not in my shoes, im feeling alone, and issolated from the world, i feel so much guilt for the things ive done in the past to deceased loved ones its slowly eating me alive and im in love with my best mate, wich is tearing the relationsionship apart, wich is the onlly real thing of any worth in my life. so i know it feels like your the only one in the world, but ur not, and i love you.

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6 months, 3 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

i know i’m not the olny one but i just wanted to know what others do as to give me a better way to fill this hollow spot :/

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lanjack3 offline Verified User (7 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

nutflus wrote:
alone, is all there is, you and yourself, and thats how it will always be, think u lucky your not in my shoes, im feeling alone, and issolated from the world, i feel so much guilt for the things ive done in the past to deceased loved ones its slowly eating me alive and im in love with my best mate, wich is tearing the relationsionship apart, wich is the onlly real thing of any worth in my life. so i know it feels like your the only one in the world, but ur not, and i love you.

you need to be verified so i can add you to my friends.

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Bickley, B8, GB | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

well i tend to spend my time down the pub, but im a mess and by no means am i sugesting that to you but do the things that make you happy, be ur self and stop looking for love and friendship, it will come to you, just hold out.

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6 months, 3 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

i’ve been holding out for years now i’m falling apart i’m about to implode this hollow spot is getting bigger it seems

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Bickley, B8, GB | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

sound very rude but how old are you?

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6 months, 3 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

me?

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Bickley, B8, GB | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (35 minutes after post)

ok sorry bout the age question, you need to fill that spot with the things you like to do, take some pride in who you are, your unique and somewhere out there is the person for you. ive never found that person admitidly… ive got very strong feelings for my best friend right now but only because she has been a rrock to me, but do what im doing, i have saved 3k and im going traveling, something to look froward to, that thought keeps me going.

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Anonymous #
6 months, 3 weeks ago (36 minutes after post)

i don’t know what i like to do

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Bickley, B8, GB | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (39 minutes after post)

what intersts you, what gives you that little brief happy feeling, music? sport? films? you need to do these things to keep ur mind of all this down feeling. IT WILL TEAR YOU APART.

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Zragon offline Verified User (8 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Broken Arrow, OK, US | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (39 minutes after post)

friends but i don’t talk to them about this stuff

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Bickley, B8, GB | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (41 minutes after post)

you need to find your closest friend and tell him/her all your worrys, if your male, i sugest a good girl friend, mine has never let me down.

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Anonymous #
6 months, 3 weeks ago (42 minutes after post)

yea but i’m to shy to get one in the first place

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Bickley, B8, GB | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (45 minutes after post)

my advise to you is this, go out, even on your own, what do you have to lose… rejection? so what, its better to be knocked down trying, then giving up on your self. get out there, meet some people, i had no one last year, my own needs and feeling destroyed any relaasionships so…

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Anonymous #
6 months, 3 weeks ago (45 minutes after post)

i don’t know any girls that i would even whant to ask atm and if i do thay have some one

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6 months, 3 weeks ago (48 minutes after post)

i should head to bead :) ty for your help nutflus

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Bickley, B8, GB | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (48 minutes after post)

what did i do? i went clubing all on my own, had a few drinks, lossend my tonuge and presto, i discoverd caz, probly the best girl in the world, now i have lots of friends i do lots of stuff but im still not happy, sounds selfish dosnt it? but as i said at the end of the day, you are always on your own, you need to get used to that feeling

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Bickley, B8, GB | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (49 minutes after post)

ok, nite nite, keep smiling, i should do this but if you need to talk, send me email on (email removed)

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Bickley, B8, GB | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (50 minutes after post)

nutflush @ hotmail. ect

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Shie offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 182 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (8 hours, 53 minutes after post)

DRIFT OFF NOW TO PROFILEFANTASY.COM

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Zragon offline Verified User (8 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Broken Arrow, OK, US | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (2 days, 5 hours after post)

thanks lil bit shi :)

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Shie offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 182 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (2 days, 11 hours after post)

you are welcome…

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nightsofold12B offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 2 weeks ago (3 months after post)

i don’t feel alone enough to want a hug. I feel alone because i can feel this world changing, the earth shivering at whats to come.

believe me when i say that those who feel alone, do not appreciate whats in front of them.

so carry on with a empathy, but do not allow it to overwhelm you so much.

u must go threw it, not over it, nor around it. then u will never be alone.

An Other

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Anonymous #
1 month ago (5 months, 2 weeks after post)

the only way to make that feeling go away is to get a hug, you should find someone you really love and is really kind to you and either ask for a hug, or you can ask if you can talk to them. if your really upset just start crying and they will probally confort you and you will have this feeling go away and get to talk to someone about it. i hope you feel better

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An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 6 days ago (6 months after post)

I know just how you feel. I’m there right now. I feel so alone as well. I’ll pray for you to overcome it though.

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