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ok so.

i’m worried about my girlfriend, because she has been being very pessimistic lately, more so than usual, and she says she hasn’t been able to cry for a while (and she crys at EVERYTHING)like she would normally cry at a sad movie, and things she normally crys about, she hasn’t been….and she seems irritable….i’m assuning it’s just some seasonal depression from winter but i’m afraid there’s more going on…..any ides/advide?

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An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Well girls are emotional and show more emotions than most guys. So be there to support and never complain to her face that she cries at almost everything. :)

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An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

I guess all that you need to do for her is to be there for her…
And maybe if you want her to cry, take her to lots of movies! but why do you want her to cry? She’ll cry when she’ll do.
If she is depressed, you can help her change her mood. Make something crazy with her, I mean go with her somewhere special where both of you will have so much fun, Always be cheerful to her and bring her some chocolate (because chocolate fights depression lol
And do what ~lilies~ say :)

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Xenos offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Plattsburgh, NY, US | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

oh, i don’t care that she cries (wow i spelt cries wrong in my post) at things, more chances for me to hold her, it’s just that she CAN’T cry and it worries me, obviously i don’t WANT her to cry i just want to know that she is okay

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An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

Your post mentioned like she almost cried at everything, thus my response. :)

Try not to fix it. Girls have their own emotional turmoil. Do things for her. She must be upset about things. Young people sometimes get upset with many trivial things and make it look like a big problem, but it is big FOR them so i don’t blame them, at least that’s what i have observed.

It could be seasonal sadness. The most important thing is, she knows you are there for her.

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Plattsburgh, NY, US | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

true, thanks for your help

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An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

Enjoy the time with your girl. She’d appreciate it so.
take care, you are always welcome. :)

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