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hey everybody i need all the help you can give me okay

here it goes i was once engaged to this girl who i pretty much have everything in common even our whole name was only off by one letter i we were so in love i do admit i did some stuff that wasnt cool at all one day me and here got to a big arguement about our future because i was going into the military and it was taking a long time because she was waiting for me because she lives in another state than me and but we worked that out but after that me and her mom’s relationship was completly destoryed since then me and my ex fiance realtionship has been in the dumps because she is very close to her mom and family but she broke up with me because i didnt get into the military she was a boyfriend now that she says she is in love with but she still say that she wants to have my kids with her and that she still wants to be with me but she says she is happy with the new boyfriend im so freaking confused now i dont know what to do anymore so i could use all the help i can get thank you so much from the bottom of my heart.

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william.m.miller offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
US | 4 months, 4 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

forget her i guess, nothing needs to be that confusing. Either she wants to be with you, or she doesn’t. But are you gonna wait for her to make that choice? I wouldn’t wait around. You should just move on. Names are stupid, and having things incommon is dumb, would you want to have your own kids, and be with yourself? Thatrs boring, find someone totally different and have nothing incommon, this opens you to whole new worlds you never thought possible.

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AmandaLynn offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 10 #
Lumberton, TX, US | 4 months, 4 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

Dude… one question:

Lets say you met this girl.. named Sarah. She was really pretty. You decided to ask her out. So yall go on a date and you get to talkin about one another and she tells you about herself. Heres what she says:

“Yea, hmm.. about me.. lets see - I tend to get a little confused about relationships because i usually make decisions on how i feel. I dont really think things through. I think your really handsome, really i do - and We could possiably go somewhere with this. But - if we dont get to stay in close contact and i end up finding another cutie out there - and start falling for him i’ll likely go for him. Oh but! That doesnt mean I dont want you to! you know? I mean - I could like several guys really - all kinda depends on how i fell. But right now your it!… So.. what are you like?”

Would you go out with her?

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mickyginge offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Ripe, E2, GB | 4 months, 4 weeks ago (40 minutes after post)

Yeah, that sounds pretty complex. Find someone new.

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gooseboys200 offline Verified User (4 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Pacific, MO, US | 4 months, 4 weeks ago (23 hours, 51 minutes after post)

i think in the end you will be hurt because lets say it gets serious like marriage then she says i like someone else owell then how will you feel but if in the position to be where you dont want a serious relationship and just want somebody for right now then go ahead but try not to fall for her or else you will get hurt trust me i have trusted alot of women in my life and i got hurt alot so really it up to you all i can do is to wish you the best of luck with whatever choice you make and hope you make the right one good luck .

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remonaz offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (1 week after post)

yeah dont let your gard down with this one, i would tell her to have a nice life then never talk to her again, it may be hard but i like what AmandaLynn said shes not worth the time

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