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Confessions of a Self Harmer!

Self-harmer Tina explains what happens when you begin cutting yourself for
therapeutic purposes. She began as a Teenager and the nightmare ended prior
to her 26th birthday.


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Confessions of a Self Harmer!

Self-harmer Tina explains what happens when you begin cutting yourself for
therapeutic purposes. She began as a Teenager and the nightmare ended prior
to her 26th birthday.

[youtube:http://youtube.com/watch?v=L_o0eYgaTDE&feature=related]


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catracha58 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Saint Gabriel, LA, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (8 minutes after post)

This kind of got
to me.

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InfoPRO offline Verified User (1 year, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (10 minutes after post)

catracha58 wrote:
This kind of got
to me.

In a good way?

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catracha58 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Saint Gabriel, LA, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (11 minutes after post)

Yeah.
It never made me
think about it like that.
My cousler helps but this
REALLY helped.

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InfoPRO offline Verified User (1 year, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (13 minutes after post)

catracha58 wrote:
Yeah.
It never made me
think about it like that.
My cousler helps but this
REALLY helped.

That’s GREAT!!!! Your reply made it worth the effort
to put this post together.

I thank you for that catracha58!

I Hope the BEST for you!!!!

InfoPRO

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catracha58 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Saint Gabriel, LA, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (14 minutes after post)

Thanks!
You too thanks
for helping.

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amichelleab offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
New Hampton, IA, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (37 minutes after post)

it feels like me. I’ve heard this before, read this stuff before but this song…wow, that’s what really got me. it hits home.

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InfoPRO offline Verified User (1 year, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (38 minutes after post)

amichelleab wrote:
it feels like me. I’ve heard this before, read this stuff before but this song…wow, that’s what really got me. it hits home.

Thank you amichelleab.

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ÑÌnJÅ_ offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (40 minutes after post)

This was good
thx for sharing

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InfoPRO offline Verified User (1 year, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (43 minutes after post)

SPØRÈ wrote:
This was good
thx for sharing

Thank You! It was my pleasure….

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InfoPRO offline Verified User (1 year, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (4 hours, 53 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
I never thought about looking for SI videos on youtube.

That was well delivered.

If anyone is dealing with SI and wants some alternatives to try

to avoid the call of the blade try looking here

http://cryingtoangels.bravehost.com/s…

Thank you Anon for that great link and compliment.
Anon had used the abbreviation of Self Injury with
the initials SI.

InfoPRO

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Anonymous #
1 year, 8 months ago (1 day, 6 hours after post)

Can anybody tell me why they chose the color orange to represent SI?
Orange is such an ugly color…

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Anonymous #
1 year, 8 months ago (1 day, 6 hours after post)

…What was red taken by?

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InfoPRO offline Verified User (1 year, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (1 day, 6 hours after post)

Anonymous wrote:
Can anybody tell me why they chose the color orange to represent SI?
Orange is such an ugly color…

Isn’t Self Injury ugly?

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Anonymous #
1 year, 8 months ago (1 day, 6 hours after post)

Not as ugly as cancer, and at least it got yellow. Yellow’s an ok color.

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InfoPRO offline Verified User (1 year, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (1 day, 6 hours after post)

Anonymous wrote:
Red has been AIDS and recently it is also women’s heart health.

May I ask you a few questions Anon?

Did you look at the video? If yes,
Did it help you in some way like more informed or create a desire
to stop this type of activity?

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amichelleab offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
New Hampton, IA, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (1 day, 22 hours after post)

I am/was a cutter haven’t done it in a little over a year now and I can tell you that this video is not ‘triggering’ at least not to the point where I would actually do it. the triggering videos are where they show people cutting, or the scratches, marks, cuts, blood etc.

InfoPRO wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Red has been AIDS and recently it is also women’s heart health.

May I ask you a few questions Anon?

Did you look at the video? If yes,
Did it help you in some way like more informed or create a desire
to stop this type of activity?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (2 months, 1 week after post)

writing to via email i> small>(email removed) /small> /i> i can be of help

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dragonvampry offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (5 months, 2 weeks after post)

I’ve seen so many of these videos and seen myself in each and every one of them. But they don’t make me stop, they only make me feel sorry for all the other people who feel the same way or are just starting.

In a way, I hope it scares them into NOT continuing the behavior, but I know first hand, that no matter what that part of the brain knows, the moment the darkness comes, you don’t stop to think your not alone…

you don’t stop to think about how you’ll hide them

what you’ll explain to people to see

what will happen in the future

or if you might do something really bad.

You just want the PAIN to stop, to make things go away and take control, to feel something again.

It’s just something to keep stored in the back of your brain, to remember that everything you do has it’s price, that your not really alone.

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An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (9 months, 3 weeks after post)

Thank you so much for posting this. Iv’e been struggling with cutting for a year and this has given me a reason to try to stop. So far it hasn’t been deep cuts, only tiny scars. Thank you 3

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accountcancelled. offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (10 months after post)

Wow, that video is amazing.

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An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (10 months after post)

Wow, that is pretty powerful stuff.

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Anonymous #
10 months, 1 week ago (10 months after post)

You know this video is triggering if you are trying to stop self injury. Up until the very end almost every other word is ‘cutting’. That’s productive.

Two weeks, a day without SI.

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An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (10 months, 3 weeks after post)

I have been a self harmer for nearly 7 years now, and my friend just told me she cut herself the other day, I am trying so hard to stop, because my arms and legs are such a mess and its hard hiding, it does change your entire lifestyle, but then i think im so scarred anyway whats the point?
But I was trying to explain to my friend what it is like to live with and why there are other options she should do before it takes over. Your video says everything I want to say to her. Thank you

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InfoPRO offline Verified User (1 year, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (10 months, 3 weeks after post)

Maybe some of the former Self Harmers or (SI) can share with this community what helped them in overcoming this addiction.

InfoPRO

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thehated99999 offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (10 months, 3 weeks after post)

man in y past i moved from my arm to my leg to hide it, then my whole left leg was covered in scars then i turned to the left then turned to the space under my short sleeves cut and burned my self as well any kind of mutilation i tried.

its all true the high feeling from the endorphins being release through pain, going to far, i also wasted shocks from the blood dripping to much made bloody pants

started to cut 10 or 20 marks at a time

i have stopped for a while tho i always seem to go back and stop i guess its better than continually doing it

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thehated99999 offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (10 months, 3 weeks after post)

lol i member that time i used a led pencil during class under my desk lol so far in collage my first year i havnt had any major episodes….gah this vid just made me more sad and self help vids usually dont bother me at all

it was a good idea to post that infopro

i thought i was completely free and started to help many others with what i learned tho again and again i realize were never competently cured we always are going to need a litte extra help message me if any of you want to get to know someone new

the_hated999999 at yahoo dot com

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InfoPRO offline Verified User (1 year, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 9 months, 2 weeks ago (10 months, 3 weeks after post)

Thanks for the Comp’s TheH

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