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Serina the Best
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my best friend (Caitlyn) we’ve been friends since 3rd

grade she had a crush on a guy and finally he got the nerves to ask her out she didnt even tell me which got me pissed cuz she told her possy (sp?) that she doesnt even like and my other best friend (Makayla) which Makayla and Caitlyn only been kinda sota not really friends since 3rd grade Makayla knew cuz Caitlyn told her but didnt tell me! then she’s been realy well kinda mean(bitchy is the word but) and been mean and snobby like she gain so much confidence now everyone hates her and she keeps braging all the time and turning her backs on me and all my friends every now and then and ignoring me i got mad at her and stopped talking to her she keeps wondering why but my friends got my back and says im right. Am i right should i forgive her? Now time passed and i dont really care but shes been my best friend should i forgive her???

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Tyler. offline Verified User (5 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Birmingham, AL, US | 5 years, 1 month ago (5 hours, 35 minutes after post)

its up to you but if i where you i would because i normalaly apoligise even if i didnt do it lol sorry if i didnt really help you im really depressed right now.

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Maximina offline Verified User (6 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 years, 1 month ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

I think you should have a nice long talk with her on your own, with no other involvment from any of your friends. I think it would be a shame if you lost the friendship of someone you care about. You obviously care about her. Maybe your friend is acting a little cocky and over cofident, but there may also be things going on in her life you don’t know about. Don’t let drama ruin a long standing relationship. Sometimes when people act like that it is because they are covering up something painful goin on. Maybe there is a good explanation why she didn’t tell you or maybe you just were not around when she was making the decision to ask the boy out. Talk to her with an open heart and mind and see what happens!!!

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gijui offline Verified User (4 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 7 months ago (6 months, 1 week after post)

ok, I had a similar situation happen to me, but talk to her, tell her thet shes being a *****, not talking to her is notthe answer, be the bigger person, if you talk to her and she dosnt see what she is doing and doesn’t apologize, then just try to ignore it for a while, not give her relevance, just trat her like one more girl in the bunch, and youll see how after a while shell realize what she is loosing and tell you she wants to make everything better. You try to handle it in a mature way.

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