guy help: I want to breakup with my guy but he’s making it really hard!

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I want to breakup with my guy but he’s making it really hard!

He’s like pleading for me and him to stay togerther saying that he’ll die if he lost me. I’m always being hte heartbreaker but I’m sick of it, I just can’t hold on to them.

Any help on how to make it less painful, I no it will be anyways, but less?

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ilauvyooh80 #
Honolulu, HI, US | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

Well,
what i think is that you should just talk to him serious.
Be determined.
Heart breaks are a part of life.
We learn how to get over it.
And thats what he needs to learn,
Just tell him how your feeling
and be strong about it.

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Benjamin S. 7 #
Omaha, NE, US | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

I agree completely with ilauvyooh80. The longer you wait, the more will hurt both of you. If this is what you want to do, what you feel is right, then I would say be strong and do it as soon as possible.

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dupes 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

theres no easy way. the best you can do for him is be totally honest and dont sugar coat anything

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Dreads 0 #
Dallas, PA, US | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (33 minutes after post)

God i know how this guy must feel! it sucks but he WILL get over it. and that IS NOT what he is gonna want to hear right now. Please Be Gentle but DO IT he may even thank you someday. (oh and dont pretend that he fell off the face of the earth, that hurts.)

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JesusMurphy 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months, 3 weeks ago (42 minutes after post)

Be tough! You can’t force yourself to love him; that would be disrespectful to both of you.

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Anonymous #
6 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 6 minutes after post)

It’s so hard. He rang me eariler and told me he loves and that he’s sorry but it’s not that simple. All the damage has been done. He told my friend that he loves me to much to go back to being friends. I’m going crazy and I feel sick about it!

molotok 53 #
G�vle, 03, SE | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (3 days, 22 hours after post)

Your line:

“Do you really love me? If you love me, would you like me to be together with somebody I don’t love? No, you would like me to move on until I find somebody who I love, wouldn’t you?
So that is what I am doing.
I am sorry, that is the way it is.”

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Anonymous #
6 months, 2 weeks ago (4 days, 2 hours after post)

Oh i like it

medinap8 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (3 weeks, 5 days after post)

hey well honestly follow ur heart if you know you dont want to be with this person why make the other person belive you want them.. break up with him. dont waste his time or your time

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