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Okay, me and this girl have been going out for like 2 months.

We met at wal-mart, ha lame i know but it was kinda cool. anyways she is a really awesome person, we have almost everything incommon but recently we just broke up. there was no reason. neither of us were sad and we still talk all the time. Honestly we are like best friends. I think thats kinda the problem, our relationship kinda got stuck in a rut, not that it was bad we would make out and laugh and watch great movies. It was really Great! but now we just chat online and talk on the phone we have not hung out since we broke up. I really miss her. she is the kind of person i would spend alot of time with, and not get annoyed.
BTW we started going out Feb 1st
broke up day before easter :(

WHAT THE F$&# SHOULD I DO?

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Nyx offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 61 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

Try taking the label off of your relationship and just enjoy it for what it is.

There is not some thick black line drawn somewhere between the words “friends” and “lovers” with all of us having to choose only one side of the line.

Just hang out with her, ask her to go places when that is what you’d like to do, and if you suddenly feel like kissing each other, then kiss. You don’t have to be either “just friends” or “boyfriend and girlfriend.” Just linger somewhere in between until your relationship moves in one direction or the other.

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Dreads offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Dallas, PA, US | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

**** NYX your like the smartest person ever! you helped me with my last girlfriend!!! that was like 4 months ago! ha ha ha well i think you gave some good advice here. im just gonna let things go and have a great time with her. thanks

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Chef offline Verified User (10 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 43 #
Portland, OR, US | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (48 minutes after post)

Well, its only been 5 days, give it some more time.

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (3 weeks, 4 days after post)

Time always helps, and even though it seemed like an awesome realtionship (it probably was, i’m not saying it wasn’t) maybe its the right thing for the both of you. Its hard to be friends after a breakup, but i believe it can be done!

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