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He shouldn’t tell other women he’s single! You shouldn’t stand for it. You sound like a lovely person and I hope you can be happy with this guy but it seems you’re in danger of letting him take advantage of your adoration of him.

I suggest talking to him seriously about this, and say you want to trust him but you don’t understand why he would tell women he’s single. You are hurting a lot,and that matters. It should matter to him most of all, so make sure he listens to you.

If you can talk about things like this you will be able to overcome problems much easier.

Best of luck. Never forget that you come first.

You need to talk to him…say that you two are together, and if he loves you he shouldnt be saying he is single…coz thats not fair…i think its ok he talks to other women, i think thats normal…but i would talk to him…coz thats the best thing you can do

Why does he tell them he is single? That doesn’t make sense. How you feel should matter to him, tell him how you feel. If he feels there is nothing wrong, or doesn’t respect your wishes that he stop saying he is single, then you should probably move on from him, because you are going to get hurt. Don’t be afraid that he will get upset, or angry, if he does….hes probably hiding something. That is rude and insensitive to your feelings.

Hes being a complete bastard, dont let him take control of your relationship. You need to make it clear that if he truely loves you he needs 2 stop cheeting on you. Otherwise threaten to end it with him. x

He should be proud to have a lovely person like you on his arm. If he loves you, he should be showing you off to everyone. The only thing to do is to talk to him. Find out why he is doing this and maybe even give him an ultimatum. He’s either with you…and willing to tell everyone, including other girls to back off, or if he wants to carry on acting single, then he should actually be single. Best of luck. Sometimes we just need to know that we aren’t the only ones with doubts and that we aren’t the only ones who think our situation is wrong. You have a lot of support. Best of luck! x

to be honest. iv done the same thing. i never cheated, never wanted to, and my gf found out, its hurt her pretty bad. it was wrong to do, cause i love the girl and i dont want to hurt her. i dont even know why i did it really. tell him if he loves you as much as he says he does, and really wants it to work, tell him how much it hurts you. and that your the only girl that should be on his mind.

Nothing is wrong to keep friendship with other women but to tell them he is single is no no. Well, he is making you believe he loves you. But action speaks louder than words.

wiskers_4 wrote:
Hes being a complete bastard, dont let him take control of your relationship. You need to make it clear that if he truely loves you he needs 2 stop cheeting on you. Otherwise threaten to end it with him. x

**** straight! :)

that was sposed to say da mn :)