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rumors, rumors, rumors…

they are not nice!!!
so i asked this guy out and he pretty much said no but instead of just telling me that, he just HAAAAD to humiliate me instead and be a jerk about it!!! anyways, rumors started and i HATE rumors!!! see like, someone said that i left school yesterday CRYING!!! I was NOT crying!!!! people or cruel! what do I do about rumors?

~~Angel

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tricky offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 59 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (2 minutes after post)

you really have one thing to do ,, care less :D ,, cause ppl talk to much :D for the wrong reasons… just dont give a sh*t you know the truth , u dont have to explain urself or anything it is there problem… ppl will keep on talking about ya and say bad things about ya… just know urself and that’s more than enought let them talk…the truth prevails

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tricky offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 59 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (7 minutes after post)

even if u do nothing wrong ppl will keep on saying bad things about ya :D ,, ppl are quite stupid hehehe

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Nensix offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Nottingham, J8, GB | 1 year, 8 months ago (8 minutes after post)

That sucks. You are so much better than this guy and I hope next time you get attracted to a nicer guy! (Though I’m also guilty of fancying b**tards)

Ignore the rumours, and rise above them. Hard to do but there will be people who will really respect you for that. Keep your head high and your words kind and you will shake off these rumours.

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OliveOil offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (58 minutes after post)

I agree with the above… people like that are not worth your time. He showed you exactly who he is, (and the sooner the better so you didn’t have to realize this while you were dating him.) Anyone involved in those rumors isn’t worth your time as well. It takes some people a number of years to grow up and realize they can’t keep friends if they gossip. I think you should ignore him and if anyone ask just tell them what is being said was “highly exaggerated.” Rise above it and move on from there. In fact don’t talk to him or about him at all. People will begin to see it was him that was making the bigger deal out of it than you. He just likes to see some drama or stir things up a bit. Some people thrive on it. It probably makes him feel powerful and in control, when in all actuality it makes him look like a jerk in the long run. Although some people revel in gossip, typically they end up not trusting or even liking the source of it - or even the people that spread it. Trust is a big issue for many people. Most people prefer hanging out with others they can trust as it adds more value to an acquaintanceship or most of all friendship. Forget him and let him talk. His mouth will do all the work for him. And as tricky said… the truth will prevail!

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OliveOil offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (1 hour, 2 minutes after post)

Sorry… basically said what Nensix said in a longer paragraph LOL! :)

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anothernikki offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

I know how you feel. I’m the victim of a lot of bad and some untrue rumors right now. Just talk to the people who will listen and make sure they know the truth.

Some people will just believe what they want to believe, and nothing will change their minds.

Hugs.

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Serina the Best offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 25 #
US | 1 year, 8 months ago (2 hours, 41 minutes after post)

well 2 things you can do revenage or keep saying i dont care what they think as long as my friends and myself and family know the truth and the real me revenage you show that guy what a jerk he is and somehow get some info about him and show him up about the real situation and stuff i wont go there unless you want me to if u do ask but just say in your mind i dont care who cares not me

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Mr Foot offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (3 hours, 15 minutes after post)

Lifes too short to worry about the opinions of adoloscent f***heads.

Don’t worry about it.

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~~Angel offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Auburndale, MA, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (22 hours, 59 minutes after post)

omg you all rock and i don’t even know you! thanks. I’ve already ignored them and stuff i just don’t like rumors. maybe by next week the rumors will be gone. i hope so anyways. i just don’t want to be the victim anymore. =[ but i am very happy today!! =] so yeah thanks everyone for the advice. =]]]]]]]] (and i like everyones choice of words =]…)

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 2 months ago (5 months, 1 week after post)

Well… i know how you feel… im 16 and my “best friend” just started a rumor that i made out with her 12 year old little brother!!! omg… uggghhhhh!!! it makes me laugh though… hahaha… i mean what kind of idiot is gunna believe that???
Seriously???…

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An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (1 year, 1 month after post)

yet another victim of gossip. a friend of mine just got victimized by one. it is really bad and i dont know how to help her. she was crying on the bus and always has red eyes and a look of sadness. what can i do though?

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