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i don’t think that it’s fair that gay people can’t just be themselves.

we are people too. we may love people of the same sex but that doesn’t mean that we’re different. i’m lesbian, and i’m proud about it. i have gay friends who are hurt a lot by people using gay comments. i love them to death and sometimes i just wanna hurt somebody. strait people can be proud about their sexuallity but they also have to know that they’re not the only one who love people. it’s not wrong for us to love those of the same sex. it’s not wrong for people to love those of different sexes…we’re all the same. people just have to realize that.

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Nensix offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Nottingham, J8, GB | 1 year, 8 months ago (18 minutes after post)

I agree with you. Do you get hurt a lot? I’m not gay but have gay friends and luckily they are treated with respect and not hassled. They are allowed to be themselves and are proud of it.

I’m not denying homophobia is still a big issue, I’m just pleased my friends don’t suffer too much here. I hope one day we will be free of it in all areas of society completely. It’s ridiculous, as is any unjustified stereotyping or prejudice.

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~LazyDaze~ offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 241 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (19 minutes after post)

Maybe you are just meeting the wrong people, I don’t see anything wrong in it, You love who you love and have no control over that.
I don’t know why people have to have problems with what others do and don’t do, would never judge someone on anything like that though, I mean why..?
I think it is sad that people get cast out because of who they are, I am happy that you are proud of who you are and I hope no one ever put you down for it.

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Dan TL offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
La Mirada, CA, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (21 minutes after post)

laryssa wrote:
…but they also have to know that they’re not the only one who love people

Yup, loving someone is no crime. No ones getting hurt, in fact love and caring is what this world needs now, in any from.

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chadi-89 offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
KW | 1 year, 8 months ago (25 minutes after post)

well i think gay people has no rights.. they are aginest nature.. nature is man and woman.. not gay…

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Dan TL offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
La Mirada, CA, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (50 minutes after post)

You mean “have”. polluting is against nature; it is destroying the ozone layer. Time travel is against nature; can damage the dimensional shifts. Cloning might me against nature; the offspring can be born with many deformities. Man loving man, Woman Loving Woman, now lets see the result::: feeling of safety, happiness, the feeling that all life’s problems are gone when the other is around. Its just love, call me old fashion but I think love is a beautiful thing, when friends love, when a mother loves her kin, when to people are romantically in love.

OliveOil offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (54 minutes after post)

It is true that some of society still puts restrictions on gays as far as marriage goes, which really is a shame. If two people love each other and would like to commit to care for one another why shouldn’t they be able? It doesn’t affect anyone else that a gay couple shares their love exclusively with one another. Since the media has evolved and started bringing stories to light about same sex couples, (both fictional and realistic), it is gradually becoming more accepted or tolerated in certain parts of the world. What gets me is why some people see their love for each other as some kind of a threat to themselves… its silly. There is no threat if two men happen to want to spend the rest of their lives together or two women enjoy each others company and are happy just being together. How does that affect me or someone outside of their relationship? The taboo really just seems so silly nowadays.

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chadi-89 offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
KW | 1 year, 8 months ago (55 minutes after post)

love is an amazing thing .. but u have to make it to the right way.. not the wrong way u know what i mean.. but gay is like a virus growin up and got to stop before it destroy the humanity .. havin a kid is amazing raise them up is great.. but when its gays.. how can kids come to life?? imagin life without kids.. men on men makes me feel sick.. god made us men and women.. not gays and i will be aginest them till i die.. and in my work i will never help them

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Mr Foot offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (57 minutes after post)

You are disturbingly narrow minded, marriage and partnership do not exist purely for the sake of producing offspring.

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Dan TL offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
La Mirada, CA, US | 1 year, 8 months ago (1 hour after post)

I understand chadi-89 If thats how you feel about gays, then thats how you feel. You think its wrong, i think its fine, like abortion, religion, cloning etc… Not much we can do as individuals right, change the world for the better. Oh well, let the nature of time take its course.

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attitude offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (1 week, 2 days after post)

im a lesbian im now 19 years of age i started telling people who i was. i was actually suprised that ppl where find with it yes you will always get some *** holes that make a big deal but egnore them who cares wat ppl think at least you and ur gay frinds are happy dont let ppl put u down

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