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I am soo picky i’m affraid I’ll never find a girl!

I don’t have a lot of people i can call friends because I feel that many are nosey and the conversation seems more like an interviwew than dialogue.

I don’t trust many people because I can sense that they are either jealous or only interested in networking oportunities… i find it hard to connect with people on a “human” level…

Am I thr only on who feels this way?

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omall offline Unverified User #
Central District, 00, HK | 5 months, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

LOL! You’re probably right… and rough day didn’t help either. Thanks for the reply

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oopsibrokeitagai offline Unverified User #
GB | 5 months, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

Maybe write down the things you value the most and focus on those, or keep neutral until you get to know someone. I sympathise, its difficult.

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Rahat Lokum offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (7 minutes after post)

But it’s normal to ask your friends about them, or you can suggest to talk about what you like. If they’re really nosey, talk with other people. If you think people can take advantage of you, don’t tell something that you think might tempt them.

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oopsibrokeitagai offline Unverified User #
GB | 5 months, 1 week ago (8 minutes after post)

Thats great advice!

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omall offline Unverified User #
Central District, 00, HK | 5 months, 1 week ago (11 minutes after post)

i second that, great advice!

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rebek~always offline Verified User (7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
US | 5 months, 1 week ago (5 hours, 10 minutes after post)

ok if im wrong about what your posting then just look over me but your post says that your sooo picky that you will never get a girl well im here to tell you that picky has nothing to do with love when you find someone who loves you and you feel the same then you wont see anything wrong with that person and sooo thats what i think and well know but if you just wanted to know if there was anyone like you well im sorry but i dont know what to tell you sorry!

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His Extreme Majesty offline Verified User (5 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 216 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (7 hours after post)

look 4 a girl who’s
hot
nice
straight
single
abstinate
and dont do drugs

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