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Ok, i know this is really stupid but its really getting old.

I talk to my aunt and uncle every thursday to see if they will need me for work. So its not cider season anymore, so they dont really need me. But still, they always say they will call or swing by. I understand that they may get busy, but this is really getting old….them always saying they will call and never do. I havnt seen my aunt in like 5 weeks, and I havnt talked to her for 2..and i rly need to talk to her. I called them twice today..like 4 hrs apart..and they didnt answer. I keep trying to shake it off, but I cant. I am so mad and dissapointed..that idk..and I feel like crying…and there is so much I need to talk about with my aunt..
If you are going to say they have lives, dont post a reply, because no dip, I know that, but this is really getting old. What should I do??

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crachel932 offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (16 minutes after post)

well…maybe..do they have an answering machine?if they do just say..”i really need to talk…its important”and they should call you back when they get a chance.its worth a try

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An Undisclosed Location | 5 months ago (36 minutes after post)

Do they live far from you, can you not go and visit them instead of trying to call or waiting for them to call?
Maybe write them a letter saying how you feel and why, that way they have no excuse.

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An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (46 minutes after post)

They live like 3 minutes away from the farm..which is where i am on the weekends…sometimes, i just wanna like walk over there, but i dont waant the to get mad…

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An Undisclosed Location | 5 months ago (47 minutes after post)

Why would they get mad at you for just popping in?

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An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (53 minutes after post)

i dont know…i dont want to waste my time goin over there if they are nto even home..and they have a really long driveway..i already called them twice on their house phone, but they moght be outside working on their yard…do you think itd be ok to try his cell??

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An Undisclosed Location | 5 months ago (59 minutes after post)

Why don’t you walk over there anyway, if they are out then they are out, you could write a little note to post if they are out, just saying you called at the house and hope everything is ok etc as not seen you for a while, that type of thing :)
You said it was only a 3 min walk, so get some fresh air and clear your head on the way over, over thinking is only makeing you feel worse and you don’t know if they are in or out yet.

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An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (1 hour, 12 minutes after post)

Walk over if they aren’t there leave a note saying you were sorry you missed them but you really need to talk to them. This will show them that you are really trying to make an effort to see them.

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slide2home01 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (1 hour, 17 minutes after post)

By car it is like 3 minutes..its like a mile or so..

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