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I don’t really know you, but the sad part is, I’d probably check your profile, try to get an idea of the kind of person you were. Ponder for a moment, consider how sad it is, shake my head, and then move on and try a little harder the next time someone says they can’t take it anymore.

I would be haunted by the thought of it for quite some time.
I would wonder if it was true.
Then I would incorporate it into my life, see how it affected other people, and most likely never forget you.

I have no idea who you are, so I doubt the news of your departure would have any meaning to me. Sorry

Hey nine the kiwi,
you a kiwi?? anyways i’d probably feel guilty at the fact that some way or another i could have put my 5cents in, maybe it would help, maybe not, but I think that if you were a kiwi, and trying so not to be bias but I would feel a loss, because one way or another we kiwis are all conected. I don’t know??
Much love to you and your family…

I would go “Wow”. And then be on with my day.

i would be mad at myself for not being able to help

i would immediately brew some coffee, well if i had just woke up of course then i would do just as if i heard it on tv that brad pitt was dead or someone i didn’t know. nothing i would go on with my life as if you never existed.

If i found out you was dead even tho i dont know you i would feel sad for your family and friends.

I would feel bad thoughout my day and probably be an emotional wreck considering how that happening would push me over the edge..lol
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humm i wouldnt feel a thing nothing sry i feel that way towards a lot of ppl. i can be a tad emotionless sometimes :/

MittensInSummertime wrote:
I would be haunted by the thought of it for quite some time.
I would wonder if it was true.
Then I would incorporate it into my life, see how it affected other people, and most likely never forget you.

This and weep, and feel ultimate guilt that I couldn’t save you.

mou = i(maginary) wrote:

MittensInSummertime wrote:
I would be haunted by the thought of it for quite some time.
I would wonder if it was true.
Then I would incorporate it into my life, see how it affected other people, and most likely never forget you.

This and weep, and feel ultimate guilt that I couldn’t save you.

me dos!

Anthrax wrote:
I have no idea who you are, so I doubt the news of your departure would have any meaning to me. Sorry

Thats real helpful….. and for a mod…. imagine that!!!!

Silverwings wrote:

Anthrax wrote:
I have no idea who you are, so I doubt the news of your departure would have any meaning to me. Sorry

Thats real helpful….. and for a mod…. imagine that!!!!

Would you rather have me lie?

You think of this often, don’t you??? Why???

Seems it would be a total waste of a life that could be very productive.

My dad took his life when I was 10.

Left mom to raise two girls alone.

Total waste of a good life.

Could have been good, anyway.

Answers are available, for what ever ails us.

Hope you find yours.

Blessings….

Anthrax wrote:

Silverwings wrote:

Anthrax wrote:
I have no idea who you are, so I doubt the news of your departure would have any meaning to me. Sorry

Thats real helpful….. and for a mod…. imagine that!!!!

Would you rather have me lie?

I guess you would close my post, if I answered that way, right??

But, things are different when the power is on your side….

See you around.

Silverwings wrote:

Anthrax wrote:

Silverwings wrote:

Anthrax wrote:
I have no idea who you are, so I doubt the news of your departure would have any meaning to me. Sorry

Thats real helpful….. and for a mod…. imagine that!!!!

Would you rather have me lie?

I guess you would close my post, if I answered that way, right??But, things are different when the power is on your side….See you around.

Your post has nothing to do with this one, and bringing it up here is inappropriate. However, since you bring it up… me closing your post had nothing to do with you. It was lead on by the arguments that started by other users on that post. I know that the users that caused the trouble would also love to have the posts re-opened so they could verbally abuse you some more. That’s not gonna happen though, so let it go.

you know if i found out you killed yourself i would just ask myself “why” what was the reason? As you can see no one knows anybody here on help .com, personally i would just say to myself ,what a shame and go on with my little life.If i would have known you ,well i hate going to cemetries and all i would do is send some flowers to your next of kin if you had any.i believe in quality of life not quantity,
should my life become unberable well there is always this little tablet,but that is not the question……

I would doubt that it really happened. but if I knew it to be true, I would feel guilty for not responding to some of the posts you invited me to.

Honestly: I really don’t know you so I would probably just look at your profile to see If I could learn who you where. Then it would make me think and wonder what kind of life you lived and what made you do what to did.

i’d probably first be sad. then i’d think about why for a while.

of course nobody knows what they would actually do unless it happens.

Cry and weep and consider doing to the same.

well if you want me to be honest i wouldn’t do anything i’d probably think oh well when theirs one loss theirs one more being born and then go back to watching tv

Yeah, I’m going to have to take the same stance as Anthrax on this one. I have no idea who you are at all, so news of your death really wouldn’t have too much of an effect on me at all.

Id prolly wonder why in the world didnt you post something about the problem you were haveing so we could help!

I can’t even answer that, the thought of anyone committing suicide is hard for me because my Dad killed himself, it really is an offensive question for me and I know that you didn’t mean it to be, but still it is.

What is the point to the question? What are you really asking here? You don’t plan on killing yourself and you shouldn’t plan on it. So why ask in the first place? Seems quite redundant, especially since most of the people on here don’t know you.
Honestly? I’d wonder how on earth and why on earth someone would post a death on here. This is a help site. What if someone was about to commit suicide on here and needed consolation, all it would be for them is a step in the wrong direction.

what a tough question.. first off, i would like to say that here at help is like having a whole other family for me.. as my real family sucks… so i get really attached to everyone here… no matter what their issues are… but those of “my family” that i talk with daily really mean a lot to me… and if i heard that you made that choice, i would seriously be upset.. wondering what else i could have said to make you know that you are a special person… wondering what else i could have done to try to save you.. it would totally devastate me… so as i sit here writing.. im hoping that you read the replies above and know that you are cared for and never have to take that avenue… many hugs..

Masquerade wrote:
What is the point to the question? What are you really asking here? You don’t plan on killing yourself and you shouldn’t plan on it. So why ask in the first place? Seems quite redundant, especially since most of the people on here don’t know you.
Honestly? I’d wonder how on earth and why on earth someone would post a death on here. This is a help site. What if someone was about to commit suicide on here and needed consolation, all it would be for them is a step in the wrong direction.

People post about suicide on here all the time. I asked my boyfriend if he’d miss me. Just the product of wonder.

i would probably be very angry and a little disappointed, since i find you to be a very interesting person. and interesting people should never waste their life in suicide. i would feel a little disappointed in humanity altogether, because here we have the best and our brightest offing themselves like adolescent lemmings. in the case of suicide, i don’t blame the society, i believe most of the blame either lands on the shoulders of the people closest to the victim, or the deceased themselves. interesting people should have the forthought to realize how their lives how the power to affect people. they should realize their own potential to lead and make a change. interesting people should be able to learn from their mistakes and from them learn to be stronger. i would have been extremely disappointed that you did not succeed in these things. your suicide would be an incredible tragedy indeed, and only serve to further my disillusionment with the best of mankind.

however, i do not know you. my daily schedule would not change except for the thoughts i think and a few words i say. “a kid killed himself today,” is a horrible thought to weigh upon the mind, especially when i might have had the ability to prevent it, especially when that person held so much promise. perhaps what intellectuals need most is common sense.

it is a relief to know that you are not intending suicide. in the kindest and most well-intending way possible, i encourage you to stop complaining about the pitiful what-if?s in life and start focusing on the power you hold to change your life and the lives of others. good luck.

Nine…….if you would like to talk to someone that really did try to take their life, and is still not out of the woods, you can give Jason a shout. Scatt4ever, for those of you who know him. He is still in ICU, in serious condition. Many on here have mocked him and made fun of him, and he has took it,and tried to be as nice as he could back, but, please remember… he is human too… and his blood runs red, just like yours. He is a Christian, but, he has feelings, and actually those feelings are what nearly cost him his life. He is not immune to criticism, and often times, words wound deeply.

i’d cry. I dont know you, but its sad when people even think about it.

I’d wonder if it was true, then give a little sigh and shake my head. I’d probably go look at your profile, posts, replies, and try to figure out who you were and why you did it. Then I’d sigh again and move on.

Not to sound like I’m trying to act all therapist, but I think the reason you made this post is to see if the people here who have offered help and support to you genuinely really cared about you, or if you’re just a person on a computer in some land somewhere to them. Sometimes I wonder that, too.
In all brutal honesty, if you killed yourself it wouldn’t really affect my life much at all. But on whatever night I’m up late watching some bad movie on Bravo or in class trying to ignore my science work, I’d probably start thinking about this and wonder if there was anything I could have ever said that would have stopped you.

….! wrote:
Not to sound like I’m trying to act all therapist, but I think the reason you made this post is to see if the people here who have offered help and support to you genuinely really cared about you, or if you’re just a person on a computer in some land somewhere to them. Sometimes I wonder that, too.
In all brutal honesty, if you killed yourself it wouldn’t really affect my life much at all. But on whatever night I’m up late watching some bad movie on Bravo or in class trying to ignore my science work, I’d probably start thinking about this and wonder if there was anything I could have ever said that would have stopped you.

You know, I think the most basic human need that we have is to be cared about and accepted for who we are. We come in all kinds of different packages, sizes, shapes and colors, from different walks of life, with different attitudes, training, values, etc. but, we have one basic thing in common, the need to be loved and accepted.

Our world is often times, very cold, and uninviting, for some of us, that is not a problem, if we have come from a place of acceptance and love, if we feel that we matter, and that we have people that care about us, if we have been nurtured, and cherished, but, not everyone has come from that atomsphere, some, have never felt love and acceptance, some are barely getting by, some are hanging by a thread, and so desperately need someone to reach out and touch them,to make them feel the love that they need, and the acceptance.

For those that have to give, there are always those who are in need. Let us spend our days, reac