life help: i don’t have feelings - Help.com

I don’t believe that, becuase I was one of the people that don’t care about other people **** matter of fact I generally don’t care abotu what some one thinks I don’t care about when they say **** I don’t caer, if it’s not about helping me get far in life I don’t care abotu them
I don’t caer if they have had a death who hasnt I don’t caer about girls becuase they all just use you when you think about it and that is the truth….guys do the same but hey girls can hurt guys worst then guys hurt girls./…real tlak

I don’t kow it’s real talk
I just don’t care about **** and as I go off to college I really don’t care, but the thing I do care about it taking care of myself and doing me no matter what I do real talk

Wow thats crazy cuz im the same way
Just last nite i had my gf of 5 years crying cuz she learned of another girl i was with i noe that i love her but as i wacht her cry i wasnt able to produce tears to show remorse …i dont know why but its like im a robot and like my emotiond towards people are fake and i know it and i just act out what is expeted of me but not really becuz i care but just becuz its rite thing to do im weird huh???
Lol i know o well **** happends rite….

I definately ‘feel’ the same way. society sets up rules, for a lack of a better word, on how we should feel and react to certain situations. that is how i have lived my live thus far. all my emotions generally have been fabricated and altered to meet the expectations that i believe people expect from you. for me showing emotions has always been a sign of weakness and a main way that people can manipulate you. if they know what really bothers you, hurts you, etc., they can use that against you. I also can that I tend to hold emotions back for that reason and will lie to peopl all the time to make them believe that everything is ok because saying ‘yes’ is easier than saying ‘no, because…’
the very few feelings i have are strong but i keep them to myself, maybe a lack of trust in people as a whole has turned my so bitter and apathetic…

i think ur lik me… i too don care abt things and im happy abt it… my friend says tat i don hav any kind of feelings.. but i think havin feelings n emotions r stupid!!!!!!! jus enjoy wats in ya life.. don mak things complex.. jus chillllllllll

The same here. I used to live with not that good family, They were like leach sucked off all my feelings. I discovered that who never got loved can’t love. Long time I didn’t cry, Never share love feelings in my relationships. I dont like nice things like pets - I think if you looked carefully you will find nothing nice arround you, things you wish to have will be boring after you have. Used to think that you can change things if you were nice to people and etc (this rubbish) but the real if you didnt have someone to lean on while you not have to make him lean on you then you cant have anything nice. People judge you from your family. Families, you cant choose it or change it but it change you. It is bad when you feel like you are someone insdie someone, really lonely! Usually I like to change my look (cut my hair) when I BOILING inside, with time you will just used to it.

yeah i feel the same way also, i thing i lost the value for mine and others feelings and for the human life, its just that i dont understand why people are so dramatic when a person dies or something. is it wrong that i have never cried at a fueneral?

You should see a psychiatrist. Not having feelings can mean psycopathy.

I cannot develop feelings for people. There are some people that I like to be around but cannot see myself be with them or having deeper feelings for. I feel this way with everyone. There have been only 3 people that I developed feelings for but did not become aware of my feelings until they were gone. I feel like I’m scared for some reason to feel vulnerable and I’m the typical person who uses humor to change the subject. Feelings are scary and people tend to misuse your feelings. I feel dead inside. No one sparks my interest and the touch of the uninteresting is sickening. I constantly question the relationship when I am in one and push the person away. I never tell my true feelings- or I feel that they don’t exist until it’s too late. I don’t know what’s wrong with me.