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Why she wants to do that to you?

I found myself in a similar position a few years ago, and the answer was fairly plain. I found a job, and moved out.

Simply put, if you can’t find and keep a job, your going to spend your life on the streets and in homeless shelters (if your family isn’t rich). At 19, I was scared of being on my own, and the transition to becoming an independent adult was painful but necessary. It sounds like your facing a tough situation either way, but finding work is probably the first step.

your mom realizes how you are the greatest blessing in her life,and hopefully you have that same feeling for her,nows your time,and most likely you have made some choices she just can’t accept anymore.she only wants you to be succesful and happy.
and showing you how hard the real world is,she ’s hoping will get you to reevaluate
yourself into becoming responsible,caring,trustwothy,respectfull to your self and her.its a hard world and nobodys gonna care,,if you don’t.i think your first step should be to have a nice talk with mom,and discuss whats in each others future,and then its time to get to work ,at school hopefully..just keep in mind its all about
choices and consequences..good luck