Love help: help me im in too deep.

hey(:

help me im in too deep.

ok so theres this guy and hes really nice and he really wants me to break up with my bf, and i guess i kinda told him that i like him and that i would dump my bf tomorow. that is not what i intend to do. i think i love my bf, and i need support and direction. the new guy says the sweetest things and claims he is in love with me, but all my friends hate him. he says he has changed but i dont trust him. help me? oh yeah and i am an incredibly empathetic person and so right now i feel like crying just because i know im going to break someone’s heart.
advide please?

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Anonymous #
1 year, 7 months ago (2 minutes after post)

If you love your bf then it really is a nobrainer…breaking this new guy’s heart is a lot lesser of a pain you will cause, and also something that honestly is more morally right. Leaving someone for someone else is one of the most painful things for a guy….believe me…I know

nainachick 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (3 minutes after post)

I’d listen to your friends. Anyone who is willing to hurt someone (Like your BF) to get what he wants will likely be willing to do the same TO you.
The next question I have for you is why are you so willing to jump ship just cause this guy likes you?

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wordfarer 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (11 minutes after post)

You are 13, you are not in that deep, but if I recall the type of politics you seem to be involved in (which I don’t, fretting so much at 13?)- if I pretend to recall the type, then I admit this new lad sounds to be pulling a bait and switch of personality. He is giving you a glimpse of what you have to look forward to should you move to his strings and dump your boy and your friends opinions.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (13 minutes after post)

I say no to the guy who SAYS he’s digging you… if he’s pressuring you (even if it’s sweetly) to break up with your boyfriend then he’s bad news. He sounds manipulative! I think you need to take a YOU day and have a pedicure or something and figure out if you’re happy with yourself before you start thinking too deep in a relationship with another guy. Cuz if u aren’t happy with u alone, you won’t be happy with ANY guy.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 44 minutes after post)

Agreed. If this guy is willing to hurt your boyfriend for his own benefit, he isn’t trustworthy. It doesn’t look like it would end well.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (2 hours, 24 minutes after post)

Hillsidecham wrote:
I say no to the guy who SAYS he’s digging you… if he’s pressuring you (even if it’s sweetly) to break up with your boyfriend then he’s bad news. He sounds manipulative!

I second that. If he cared about you he wouldn’t ‘ask’ you to break your bf’s heart. To me he is asking you to hurt someone you care about, maybe even love. That show disrespect to you and the people you care about.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 7 months ago (2 hours, 35 minutes after post)

No good guy will pressure you into breaking up. He may want it, but will not tell you to do it. Believe me, someone who does that will do it to you.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (7 hours, 27 minutes after post)

the new guy is a fake them sweet things that he says will last into he got you into bed! ask yourself how much do you love your bf?

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Anonymous #
1 year, 7 months ago (11 hours after post)

stay with your boyfriend. simple. you love him, he loves you. you may like the new guy cause he’s a breathe of fresh air. but if your friends dont like him then…its a no no. just stay with your bf.

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