friends help: theres this girl who i want to be friends with in my school but

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theres this girl who i want to be friends with in my

school but shes a loner and im a loner tooo and im uncomfartable to speak to her cause i dont talk and im shy

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wordfarer 36 #
Antioch, IL, US | 3 months ago (2 minutes after post)

Strange a “loner” should want a friend.

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (3 minutes after post)

aww
well maybe you could find something shes interested in and ask her about it oneday
or even just say hi, you never know she might be feeling the same way about you:)

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galadriel_711 2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (5 minutes after post)

ive once spoken to her but that was last grade when our grade was going on a five day trip and i was in the same cabin with her

Help me with: im such a loner at school theres nutin to do but stand there

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An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (7 minutes after post)

and was she friendly? did you get along well?

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galadriel_711 2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (8 minutes after post)

she does talk a lot and she was nice but its hard for me to talk cause i dont know how to socialize

Help me with: im such a loner at school theres nutin to do but stand there

Candy13531 4 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (9 minutes after post)

try to catch her eye and smile and wave… then the next time you pass her say hi… then th next time you’re around, you can spark a conversation without feeling awkward.

liliput #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (11 minutes after post)

aww well the first step in learning is going out there and trying to be social…if you keep staying quiet she wont notice you..go on sat hi, make a comment about something shes into, if you have similar interests maybe that can be a conversation starter

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liliput #
An Unknown Location | 3 months ago (14 minutes after post)

**say lol not sat

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Anonymous #
3 months ago (19 minutes after post)

I think this is related but im not sure

one time me and my neighor fought a lot so one day my mom said ” kill her with kindness” so i waved when possible, smiled too.. ten one day we became best friends.

Anonymous #
3 months ago (43 minutes after post)

well you can start by always saying hi when you see her….every time.
ask simple things like “how are you?” or “how was your day so far?”
you can ask about her classes, whats her fav. ect.
ask what kind of books shes in to and stuff…..just not question after question of different topics try to stay on same topic and when the topic dies think of another… and so on. try to get comfortable and be casual and most importantly be honest and yourself.
just be open

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