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i think all i can say for this is i dont want to tell you to do something cause if you do it might back fire on you because my friend told his mate that he fancied and she aint spoken to him for a year now i can just give you some advice and see what you choose for that
1.tell him it might get it off your chest
2.dont tell him and burn inside with the what if
3.stop talking to him and leave him with the feeling that he had done something to you that has stoped you talking to him
3.dont do anything act like nothing is hapening and move on and find someone eles
hopefully that had guided you in what you want to do.

1- you are hurting yourself for someone whose heart is not with you

2- you are still very young ( it seems) and you will meet so many boys during your life that you will be sick of it. Trust me!

3- the best things in your life are ahead of you, so dont worry too much.

4- try not to embarrass yourself, because That is the only thing that is very hard to forget, even worse than forgetting a boy! DONT EVER LOSE YOUR DIGNITY

5-Dont do to this girl ASH what you dont wish someone did to yourself - because it will happen to you exactly the same and maybe you will be married and you dont want other girls hoovering around your husband, do you?

6- Take up some activities, sports, music, dance, make new friends and meet new boys.

7-whatever you feel for this boy is only on your mind, next boy you love will feel exactly the same - and the next and the next. SO relax and enjoy life, that is what life is about

I loved a man in this way for many months. I was not ashamed to Love and frankly my dear that is very difficult to hide when it comes pouring out of your eyes when you look at him. Oh yes I wanted him sooo much I felt so obsessed with my adoration of him. In fact I wanted him sooo much that I was willing NOT TO HAVE HIM. In fact, what helped was to take a good look into myself and admit that he was a much “better catch” and I was…and needed lots of work to become the kind of woman such a man would want. Hey, that was 30 years ago…and I still have much to improve. But I learned it is a beautiful thing to Love (unconditionally) without needing anything back. You may be surprised where it takes you spiritually. Soma

I used to have a similar problem. There was I girl that I had been friends with for a good few years. slowly I fell in love with her, but she didn’t want anything to happen between us. there was a stage for about two months when I constantly followed her around, and put her, before my other friends that I had known for years more. In fact, i started pretending to be friends with her mates, so i could spend more time with her. I used to cry myself to sleep at night, because she never accepted my love. I know it sounds lame, but thats how madly in love I was. I finally managed to let go however. i did this by telling myself that I was doing it for her happiness, and so that she didn’t have me spoiling her day for her. The hardest part is the first few days, but from then on, I haven’t spoken much to her since.