Love help: ok this is not part 2( that i’ll do @ about 8pm tonight)

ex_kon_h1942

ok this is not part 2( that i’ll do @ about 8pm tonight)

but a whole new thing, ok can someone tell me why i’m ready to get out of this relationship that i’m in. it’s been 2 almost 2 1/2 years, 1 child(”the boss” she’s so pretty) and nothing else. yeah i know seems simple right? wrong! i haven’t had a job in over a year, she (my babymomma)had a problem with where i worked so i quit(ain’t that love?). well we both go to two different schools. now she works and i “hustle” (which for the record “i HATE hustlin” but how else can i earn my keep, i’m an ex-kon they don’t hire ex-kon’s down here.). now i understand she works, i’m home with kid, and we both do the school thing, but hell! she’s livin wit me in my people’s **** fo free! this chick don’t clean, do laundry, don’t cook (hamburger helper is all she makes). i’ve woken up in my bed and there’s ****** diapers on my bed. yes this ***** (anyone of ya’ll call her that i’ll kick ya ***,lol) is the lazy’est person i know. to top it off she always finds something to complain about. tell her to do something and it’ll never get done. (ladies only) if when she met me i was the person that she wanted, why the **** is she tryin to get me to change? (fellas) why do women want us to change but they don’t change? if they ***** atleast 10 times on monday it’s a pretty good guess that she’ll find 10 reasons to start bitchin on tuesday. well if you feel like your input might be helpful POST IT! if not hell POST IT! anyway. ok ya’ll the boss has awakened so i gotta stop typin holla

ya’ boy
phil frmdahood.

This open post was written 6 months, 1 week ago | V/U/S: 178, 4, 4 | Edit Post | Leave a reply | Report Post

Reciprocity (0)

Since writing this post ex_kon_h1942 may have helped people, but has not within the last 4 days. ex_kon_h1942 is a verified member, has been around for 1 year, 6 months and has 3 posts and 23 replies to their name.

Post Tags (12)

Love, woman, Hamburger, Boy, school, Diaper, Kick, Person, Beauty, Year, hood life, Relationships (How Tags Affect Reciprocity)

Replies (4)

Where were you?

Click and drag to move the map around. FAQ: How we place people on this map »
You can also watch events on Help.com as they happen

Mouse over the map for 2 seconds to see an expanded, interactive view

LHLord... 6 #
Gainesville, FL, US | 6 months, 1 week ago (48 minutes after post)

Your right it is hard for ex-cons (like my boyfriend) to get a job, anywhere. As soon as they see the habitual offender part of his record, they turn him away. BUT it’s easier trying to find a job landscaping or construction, some kind of labor job, they usually don’t care what your history is as long as you’re willing to work. My boyfriend was doing land surveying a while ago and he was making $12 an hour there, even with his history. Do you have your drivers license? There are a lot of moving companies that hire people with history’s as well.

As far as the baby momma go, lol…

Maybe now that you have a kid together, she is finding all kinds of things about you that she doesn’t like because when you have a child together, it’s a lot different than just dating someone. All of a sudden, you are going to spend the rest of your life with this someone. Spend almost everyday together. No more breaking up when you feel like it, someone else’s life is at stake. I say if you are unhappy with your relationship, then leave her. It’s much harder being a great father if you’re pretending your happy everday. Maybe she is just wore about from being a mommy for so long, why don’t you send her to the spa or something for a day, something just for her to relax. OR just make her a bubble bath at home and watch the baby while she has me time.

PS. The baby is so adorable! Her little face is too cute!

Help me with: Tony Hawk’s Proving Ground for PS2

ex_kon_h1942 2 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (1 day, 5 hours after post)

thanks for the advice might find a construction job. i told it to her and she thinks it’s silly! but then again she’s just terrable. but your right it is harder to pretend.

unhappy gal 1 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (1 day, 14 hours after post)

Hey thanks for the advice ill take on board!! your girlfriend is going to try to change you but thats only cause she loves you and she wants to makes wat to have work, I know i tryed it myself. But the thing is its seems that your just looking for an excuse to get out of the reltionship. Be honest wit yourself and you girl and seee wat happens after that. It will make foa a happier life for your little girl!!!!

Help me with: I thought time heals!

alijahalexis3 0 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (2 days, 3 hours after post)

Hey there! Thanks a mil for posting a response to my shout out for help yesterday. I was the one so down in the dumps, couldn’t think of a reason to go another day. Today is another day, and feeling a little more upbeat. I am going thru a divorce, and man, the guy I married compared to the guy thirteen years later is a big difference! I think we should all accept one another, no matter what, with some exceptions :-), and lend a hand when needed. I am sorry bout what your dealing with, but dude, just looking at your “boss”, wow! Just stay focused, you have a beautiful baby girl to keep on plugging, and believe me, she’ll be proud of you that you’ve kept the fight going for her and you! If it’s meant for your girlfriend and you, it’ll be.
Take care, and hope to see another post from you!
Lisa-anne

Invite Others to Help

A logged in and verified Help.com member has the ability to setup a Friends List and invite others to help with posts.

Love help: ok this is not part 2( that i’ll do @ about 8pm tonight) - Help.com

ok this is not part 2( that i’ll do @ about 8pm tonight)

Reciprocity (0)

Post Tags (12)

Replies (4)

Invite Others to Help

Help.com Homepage