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I have alot of fears.

Being alone, Losing my mom, A bridge collapsing while i’m on it, Mayo….

Does this make me wimp?

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Shakeybritches offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 10 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (3 minutes after post)

I wouldn’t think so. You are afraid of mayonnaise?

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Dan TL offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 342 #
La Mirada, CA, US | 5 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Nope, a lot of people have a lot of fears. Being alone as well, roller coasters, etc… Doesn’t make you less of a person, In fact your more then many cause you can admit it, when many can’t.

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lazoey offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (5 minutes after post)

yes, i am afraid of mayo. i cant even type the whole word out. it gives me the heebygeebies.

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Falling Up offline Verified User (5 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
Makurdi, 26, NG | 5 months ago (5 minutes after post)

good point Dan

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lazoey offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Thank you, sirs.

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Shakeybritches offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 10 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (6 minutes after post)

Most welcome

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Shakeybritches offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 10 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (22 minutes after post)

seeuseeme wrote:

lazoey wrote:
Thank you, sirs.

We are more of friends than sirs or madams I must say and I am sure most, if not all will agree to me.

Open up, we are all here to hold you hand when you want us to.

OK, I’ll hold hands…….but I ain’t kissing anyone!

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lazoey offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (26 minutes after post)

shakeybritche wrote:

seeuseeme wrote:
lazoey wrote:
Thank you, sirs.

We are more of friends than sirs or madams I must say and I am sure most, if not all will agree to me.

Open up, we are all here to hold you hand when you want us to.

OK, I’ll hold hands…….but I ain’t kissing anyone!

what if i really needed your lips, though? XD

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Shakeybritches offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 10 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (30 minutes after post)

lazoey wrote:

shakeybritche wrote:
seeuseeme wrote:
lazoey wrote:
Thank you, sirs.

We are more of friends than sirs or madams I must say and I am sure most, if not all will agree to me.

Open up, we are all here to hold you hand when you want us to.

OK, I’ll hold hands…….but I ain’t kissing anyone!

what if i really needed your lips, though? XD

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

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Shakeybritches offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 10 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (30 minutes after post)

Depends on where you need them.

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lazoey offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (31 minutes after post)

lol… who knows?

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XxAxelxX0 offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (35 minutes after post)

If you ask me fears and flaws are what define us. Everyone has them and I don’t think they make someone a wimp or weaker. Though I do believe that if you can over come those fears and flaws, you can become a stronger and better person from the experience. =D

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Jose M offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (42 minutes after post)

a whimp , no!

Everyone has fears , but one of the best parts of life are overcoming thing like that and living with broader horizins . i got to tell you right now i don’t fear anything. that will propably change. but life is good!

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An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (43 minutes after post)

I think that fears can hold you back and the only way to overcome those fears are to face them and you will see there not as bad as you thought.

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Shakeybritches offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 10 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (44 minutes after post)

Are you afraid of heights?

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An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (44 minutes after post)

jtfz7 wrote:
I think that fears can hold you back and the only way to overcome those fears are to face them and you will see there not as bad as you thought.

I totally agree with that, in fact facing your fears is the treatment that therapists use for phobias. What’s scares you about mayo?

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lazoey offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (47 minutes after post)

I’m only afraid of heights if i’m on a ferris wheel.

About the mayo… I have no idea. All of it. I think it roots from an abusive childhood; At least thats what they say when i go to therapy.

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Shakeybritches offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 10 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (48 minutes after post)

lazoey wrote:
I’m only afraid of heights if i’m on a ferris wheel. About the mayo… I have no idea. All of it. I think it roots from an abusive childhood; At least thats what they say when i go to therapy.

Try going skydiving.

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An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (51 minutes after post)

I think thats probably true. And by probably I mean definitely. Its good that you’re in therapy. Were you forced to eat mayo/was the mayo somehow involved in your abuse?

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lazoey offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (54 minutes after post)

forced to eat it from the man who abused me, yes.

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An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (59 minutes after post)

lazoey wrote:
forced to eat it from the man who abused me, yes.

Sorry to hear that.

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lazoey offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

shakeybritche wrote:

lazoey wrote:
forced to eat it from the man who abused me, yes.

Sorry to hear that.

eh, its over now. its okay.

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Shakeybritches offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 10 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (1 hour, 3 minutes after post)

That’s good. Now about that skydiving…….

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lazoey offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

hmmm… it sounds fun. meet you at the border? (im in sc)

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An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

lol…..

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An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

can’t chicken out!

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lazoey offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (1 hour, 13 minutes after post)

When and where… tax season is almost done so i’ll have some time off ^_^

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Shakeybritches offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 10 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (1 hour, 22 minutes after post)

Do you know where oak island is nc?

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lazoey offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (1 hour, 22 minutes after post)

no, unfortunately…

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An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (1 hour, 23 minutes after post)

lol…..you know the big blue wet thing they call the atlantic ocean?…lol

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lazoey offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (1 hour, 24 minutes after post)

:::throws shoe::::

smart ***.

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An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (1 hour, 25 minutes after post)

::::ow…son of a ………gun:::::

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lazoey offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (1 hour, 25 minutes after post)

XD
oh, i’m just waiting for the help bot now.

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An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (1 hour, 26 minutes after post)

I see…..you can start it, but then the helpbot has to bail you out…..ok……

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lazoey offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (1 hour, 29 minutes after post)

i can do it my own self

::takes off her earrings:::
you wanna scrap? I’m frum the dirrtay south and down hur we dont play that shizzit.

Oh wow, dont read that. i lost braincells just typing it.

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An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (1 hour, 29 minutes after post)

i’ll kick your butt…………………………………..if you can catch me…lol

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lazoey offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (1 hour, 31 minutes after post)

lol. i’m a plus size twenty year old. probably not.

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An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (1 hour, 32 minutes after post)

i’m a heck of a lot older than 20, but i’m a plus size too….lol

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lazoey offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (1 hour, 33 minutes after post)

haha. you’re old. this post has been alive and kickin for an hour and a half. good grief.

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An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (1 hour, 34 minutes after post)

Yes, I am old, 734 to be exact. But I always take my Geritol…..lol

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lazoey offline Verified User (5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (1 hour, 35 minutes after post)

Dont worry, i’m just a 92 year old hobbit trapped in this fat girl’s body.

people tell me that i’m an “old soul”

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An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (1 hour, 37 minutes after post)

lol…..good grief

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An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (1 hour, 52 minutes after post)

Going back up a bit, i am also sorry to hear that, but it makes perfect sense that you would have fears regarding things involved in abuse. At least your fears are rational. Some people have fears of really arbitrary things.

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