life help: I dont know what i want to do with my life.

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I dont know what i want to do with my life.

i am at school, but i really really hate it. i am in VCE and VCE is bassically for people who know what they want to do when they finish school and want to go onto Univercity and study further.

I dont know what i want to do… to me i feel like going to school is pointless, i dont like any of my classes. i want to quit school and get a job.

my mum tells me i have to finish school and stuff… she is really old fashioned also… she wont help me with anything… i have to learn everything on my own. I havent got my ‘L’s for my car and i dont have a job because i need a birth certificate and my mum wont help me get one.

she also never gives me money. she tells me to get a job if i want money. BUT I CANT WITHOUT A BIRTH CERTIFICATE!

and i dont want a job while i am at school because we get TONS of homework. and some of my freinds have part time jobs and struggle alot. they are failing.

i am really confused at the moment. School is so hard… and i dont know what i want to do with my life when scholl is over with.

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Anonymous #
6 months, 1 week ago (2 minutes after post)

Try independent study or homeschooling - I had a similar problem to yours, and that helped me a lot. :)

kyleschwent 4 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (7 minutes after post)

you dont have a birth certificate? wtf… uhm, what?

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Anonymous #
6 months, 1 week ago (9 minutes after post)

its not that i dont have one. my mum doesnt know where it is… we have moved alot and so it has gotten lost in all of the stuff.

so i have to go into the city and my mum has to sign all this stuff and get a copy

kyleschwent 4 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (13 minutes after post)

how old are you?

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letst 1 #
MN | 6 months, 1 week ago (13 minutes after post)

Try walking alone for 3 hours everyday.
I am giving a guarentee that it can help you to know what you want.

letst,

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Anonymous #
6 months, 1 week ago (14 minutes after post)

im 17

kyleschwent 4 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (18 minutes after post)

i dont recomend walking around in circles for hours, I would say though to get some alone time, put all this school and job and money stuff out of your mind, and ask yourself, what do you want to do? Close your mind to everything and really find out what you want. Could be anything from going to space or playing with animals all day, but just find out what you want to do, and everything else will fall into place

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Nutmeg 22 #
Vancouver, BC, CA | 6 months, 1 week ago (24 minutes after post)

Sounds like good advice kyleshwhen.
I agree with you, its a bad idea to get a part-time job in school cuz you get so much work! But maybe you should just stick it out (how much longer do you have to go?) so at least you’re done that. As to the birth certificate, if you just need your mom to fill out some forms, maybe you could get all the other paperwork and everything ready to go, then sit down with your mom and tell her: “look, I’m being responsable, I’m thinking ahead, I’ve done all this myself, and now I’m asking you to fill this out because I cannot do it myself.” Hopefully she’ll respect that?
Don’t think though that you have to have it all planned out now. I don’t either :). But ESPECIALLY if you don’t know what you want to do, I think you should finish school, so you can keep all your options open. Then maybe take a year off and travel/w/e, and try to figure out what you want to do?

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llsh5 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (3 hours, 29 minutes after post)

Believe me, I know how you feel. I am a “non-traditional” student and I have a child. I was laid off from my job last year and still cannot find a job.

I decided to go back to college because every GREAT job wants a college degree. I hate going to classes, I hate the homework and the professors. But, I know I am where I need to be. I have already tried working for almost 20 years without a degree and honestly, I did not get too far.

Stay in college, it is the right place to be, you must complete it. I hate it as much as you do, but I have tried working full time and if you want a great job, you need a college degree.

I am still trying to make a final decision on my career path, but I have spoken to many different people and people that are currently in the fields in which I want to go into… Keep searching, you’ll find what you are looking for.

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wynturnmir 3 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (2 days, 13 hours after post)

Well the question is what do you like to do? What interest you? You should do something you like, because if not you will not like your job. And your mom needs to realize that she needs to help you before you can get a job, its not like you are asking for a million dollars.

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giggleta #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 4 weeks ago (4 months, 1 week after post)

I’m a 24 year old married lady in the states and still clueless about what to do with my life. I made the mistake of dropping out of college (University) a few years ago and I will tell you that shortchanging yourself–in any way–will become the biggest regret of your life. I wish I could figure out for myself or you or for anyone else the answer to finding one’s own passions. What I CAN pass on is don’t give up on developing yourself in the meantime…be it ‘University’ or valuable job training of some sort. It is like Shakespeare said: “To thine own self be true.” Have you considered maybe just getting a job for a year AFTER you finish school, and THEN continuing your education/getting job training? (Ask your mum how you can get your birth certificate). It might not show you what you want out of life immediately, but it will at least help you to know yourself a little better, and provide the means for schooling later. It can also expose you to a lot of different people and situations that can open your mind to new possibilities that you might not have considered before. I mean hey, if all else fails, it’s experience and money, right? Both are useful. Good luck in your studies, and in sorting this stuff out. Sorry for the novel. I hope this helps.

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