friends help: I have had a crush on this girl for over seven years.

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I have had a crush on this girl for over seven years.

She has been dating one of my friends for the past three years. It was mutual and they are still great friends. I am good friends with my crush now, but that isn’t quite good enough. I want to tell her how I feel. I want to hold her in my arms and stare deep into her eyes. There is a problem. She is starting to date this guy that lives two hours away. She considers him perfect for her. They have the same hair colour, eye colour, and religion. They do look good together, but I want to be at her side. Plus, one of her best friends has a crush on me, but I don’t like her in that way. When ever I try to hang out with my crush, I always get directed towards her friend. Plus graduation is coming up and I may not see my crush after graduation. What should I do? Should I tell her how I feel?

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asugarbaby90 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (4 minutes after post)

Act is if you havent noticed her realy and finaly get her alone start droping hints that you like her like secret letters candy and also mixtapes just something to show you realy do care and after that you can start asking her if she waants to hang out play video games watch movies something convient then finaly when you feel she feels the same way to let her know how you feel from your heart

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js 1 #
Cambridge, MA, US | 1 year, 7 months ago (8 minutes after post)

yes you so should i told my crush that i loved him and now we are best friends and yes we did go out once. and i did like him for 8 years so take my advice go get her!

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AlmostLuver 5 #
Santa Ana, CA, US | 1 year, 7 months ago (13 minutes after post)

You really should tell her. You’ll feel alot better and maybe she’ll realize that you’re the guy for her!!

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I have had a crush on this girl for over seven years. She has been dating one of my friends for the past three years. It was mutual and they are still great friends. I am good friends with my crush now, but that isn’t quite good enough. I want to tell her how I feel. I want to hold her in my arms and stare deep into her eyes. There is a problem. She is starting to date this guy that lives two hours away. She considers him perfect for her. They have the same hair colour, eye colour, and religion. They do look good together, but I want to be at her side. Plus, one of her best friends has a crush on me, but I don’t like her in that way. When ever I try to hang out with my crush, I always get directed towards her friend. Plus graduation is coming up and I may not see my crush after graduation. What should I do? Should I tell her how I feel?

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Hay-bug31693 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (2 hours, 38 minutes after post)

The only best thing to do, so that not telling her keeps eating you up on the inside is tell her!!!

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amber_so_hot #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (22 hours, 12 minutes after post)

i think that u need to tell her she could b that 1 4 u . and u sound like you like her alot . and she may like you . look my sis had the same thing happen to her and now she has 2 babys by him . SO JUST DO IT !!!!!!

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mrk66 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (23 hours, 6 minutes after post)

Dude…Get over it! 7 Years. Look I held a passion for the same girl for 8 years and needless to say i never got her. She also dated your friend…bad karma…You can lose your friend, and is a girl worth losing a good friend?

“She considers him perfect for her. They have the same hair colour, eye colour, and religion” Are you f******ng kidding me?! Dude…No way…looks don’t mean anything. Tell the girl how you feel…as for her bestfriend having a crush…big problem because most women won’t date a girl their friend is into. Open up tell the girl how you feel…you might get rejected…you might not…be prepared for the worst, and hope for the best. Also…don’t be misguided…you are in the friendzone. I hate to tell you this…but you might be in a bad spot…give it your best shot…and hope for the best.

famigo4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 month, 2 weeks after post)

GREAT ADVICE mrk66….. I wanna try it myself….lol…… Yeah! I agree with them tell her before its too late… There’s no mess telling her….. Just explain and be sincere she’ll understand you’ll see…. never lose hope and have faith. JUST BE YOURSELF MAN!!!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (2 months, 2 weeks after post)

i say tell her, it may be a really occurred situation but indecision, is to me the worst feeling in the world! even if she does not like you at least you know it will be in the back of her mind and you won’t have keep her close through friendship. whatever you do don’t try and go all out at once and declare your love all at once like in the movies that will just scare her off. anyway tell her how you fell in a mature way and that should do it.

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trevinoo #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (2 months, 3 weeks after post)

dude tell her its not like your friendship will end.

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