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I am sick of my friends.

I don’t trust them anymore, they always judge me when I tell them important things like how I feel. We don’t share the same interests, they are only concerned with themselves and they are always walking all over me. I flat out don’t feel like I can trust anyone anymore, and I have all these feelings bottled up inside of me about to burst.

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Anonymous #
6 months ago (1 minute after post)

i feel the same way, it REALLY sucks

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soccergrl4ever1 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (1 minute after post)

i don’t know what to do!

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cdwilliams2 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (3 minutes after post)

did you thry talking to them ?

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njpita2 offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (4 minutes after post)

theres really nothing you can do. i would just not tell them anything important or anything they can hurt you with and just have them for fun and you should have ONE or TWO ppl that you actually call TRUE friends and if you have that you have everything if you have more than that theyre prob not your true friends…course theres an exception to everything

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Anonymous #
6 months ago (4 minutes after post)

me neither, like i found this guy i could trust, and we got really loe and stuff, but after spring break he became way distant, and shyish, like acting all cool and stuff…

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An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (5 minutes after post)

same w/ me! i would nvr ever tell them a secret! they would tell all their other friends or make fun of me. i ignore it and when i’m around them i have no idea what i’m supposed to do or say!! they always complain that i’m too quiet but who cares. we still have fun……………….sometimes

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soccergrl4ever1 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (6 minutes after post)

that’s how i feel. we have fun….sometimes, but most of the time I’m upset because I can’t tell them anything.

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Anonymous #
6 months ago (7 minutes after post)

me 2!!

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soccergrl4ever1 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (7 minutes after post)

i feel like crying or something because I can’t hold all these feelings in.

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Anonymous #
6 months ago (9 minutes after post)

its ok, wat u do is write them all down, or draw a picture of how u feel, and burn it, or eat it, or rip it up and throw it out, it sounds stupid, but it actually works!!

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An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (9 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
its ok, wat u do is write them all down, or draw a picture of how u feel, and burn it, or eat it, or rip it up and throw it out, it sounds stupid, but it actually works!!

ya! ones i did that, then i soaked the paper in water then ripped it to shreads then I threw it away. it totally works!!

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Anonymous #
6 months ago (10 minutes after post)

i know!!

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soccergrl4ever1 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (11 minutes after post)

I will try it. I just need someone I can trust, and there is no one.

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Anonymous #
6 months ago (11 minutes after post)

wat about ur parents?

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hannahwallywallac offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (12 minutes after post)

are you a christian ?

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soccergrl4ever1 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (13 minutes after post)

yea right my parents, they love me and all but they don’t get it. and no im not christian.

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Anonymous #
6 months ago (14 minutes after post)

do u have siblings?

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adamm101 offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Robesonia, PA, US | 6 months ago (15 minutes after post)

i am going through the same thing -telling him stuff he is just a total d***** wad
now

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An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (15 minutes after post)

yeah i find i can talk to my brother about everything

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An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (17 minutes after post)

i can talk to my sisters (my older ones) and they wont tell anyone

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scout offline Verified User (6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months ago (4 days, 20 hours after post)

i feel the same way a lot of the time. i just try to focus on the things that make me happy and not care what anyone thinks.i think that if you do what you need to stay in touch with who you are, other people will notice and be drawn to that and you’ll make new friends, ones who are your friends because you respect each other and share a lot in common

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tjg092 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (1 month, 2 weeks after post)

I am right along with you!! I also hate her ‘new’ friends. I think you should take a looooooooong break from them and find new friends.

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An Unknown Location | 5 days, 10 hours ago (6 months after post)

get a group and be mean to them in that group or find the meanest one and take the rest of the group and do what she did to u then tell them how u feel or find new friends

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