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SOMEBODY PLEASE HELP BECAUSE I DONT KNOW WHAT 2 DO ANYMORE

I’m a nice girl.I get good grades in school but dont nobody want to get to know me.I try to be strong but i cant.I’m dealing with the huge problems that i dont know what to do
1st, Its this boy i like but he acts so mean to me
2nd,I feel like im the uglyest girl in school because of my teeth
3rd,I dont get to see my mommy,daddy,sister or brother and its tearing me in pieces
4th,all my friends are so fake the only reason i put up with them because i hate being alone is that even right and finally I’m stress out over all this and so much more.I’m only 13 i cant put up all this how can i avoid all this problems and soo many more

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Determined_19 offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (32 minutes after post)

First, if the boy you like is mean to you then he doesnt deserve you
Second, you should be happy you have teeth. dont let somethink like that stop you from feeling beautiful. think of your positve assets.
Third, Im sorry you dont get to see your family.
Fourth, Dont put up with something you dont have to. That kind of makes you fake as well
Keep your head up :)
My favorite saying is “If you handed it, you can handle it”

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personata offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (41 minutes after post)

Hello, I remember being 13, it felt like everything I did was strange. I look back now at pictures and realize there was nothing wrong with me. We are pretty good at finding our own flaws. Keep in mind that this boy you like could be acting mean because he is worried about you and other people seeing HIS flaws. A lot of times people are mean because they are actually afraid. It sounds strange but it is true. I bet there are people out there who wish they could be more like you for certain reasons. Life is funny that way.

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californiasun offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (47 minutes after post)

You show an incredible amount of wisdom for being only 13. Clearly, you are a very intelligent young lady, and don’t you ever forget it! Girl, I went through many of the same things you’re going through, and I know it sucks. But don’t let it get you down…this is all just a part of life.
You absolutely WILL get through it and you will be even stronger and happier than you could ever imagine, I know it.
Focus on school, get the good grades you know you can get, and be proud of yourself. Do whatever it takes to get you where you want to go in life and it will all come together.

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personata offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (48 minutes after post)

Cali-sun is right.

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prettyconfused offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (51 minutes after post)

1) if that boy is mean to you, thats probably just the way he can show that he likes you.
2)whats wrong with your teeth? and if you feel like thats the only reason your not pretty just dont smile. or get them fixed if you can afford it
3)im sorry that you dont see your family and you should find ways to stay in contact with them.
4)i feel your pain because all the friends i used to have in hs were fake and even though you dont like to be alone its better than hanging out with fake people. if others view them as fake then they will most likely view you the same way and thats not cool. stay real and good luck!

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lilmomma_nick offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Chicago, IL, US | 1 year, 7 months ago (7 hours, 23 minutes after post)

Thank you that helped alot.Bless you all

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lilmomma_nick offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Chicago, IL, US | 1 year, 7 months ago (7 hours, 25 minutes after post)

My teeth are like separated and ii have gaps between my 2 front teeths and everybody makes fun of me

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prettyconfused offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (10 hours, 55 minutes after post)

if you have insurance, i sugest braces but as a female i think that other females with a gap in their two front teeth are sexy maybe not so much on boys but its definitely cute. some may disagree like the people who are making fun of you but i know most think that shows natural beauty. people make fun because they are jealous and they dont have a life.

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samararrenee offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (4 days, 1 hour after post)

I think that you shouldn’t worry about this boy…as the saying goes boys ill be boys. But why dont you get to see your family? I understand about the friends thing also. 13 year old girls can be harsh. You need to find some better friends, people who like you for who you are not what you can do or give. Yes these friends may not be the best looking, but they will stick by your side if you stay true to them.

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lilmomma_nick offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Chicago, IL, US | 1 year, 7 months ago (4 days, 2 hours after post)

I am adopted and me my brother and sister is separated so we dont see each other and i dont hang out with people because of how they look just 2 let u kno and most of my friends are boys alot of girls my age dont like me

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Bebe♥*!! offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 month after post)

well hey try to find other friends that do care about you!
look i did the same thing but i just noticed that there is wayyy wayyy more people out there that really will care about you!
trust me i know how it feels!!!=]]
and just give them time that way they get to know you!

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lilmomma_nick offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Chicago, IL, US | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 month, 2 weeks after post)

THANK U

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 month, 3 weeks after post)

I am a cameroonian.i wish to look for help for sponsorship.i had advance level last year and i’m good in computer hardware and also i know basics in taking care of one day chick to one month.i will be happy if i am consider.i lost my mum and dad long ago.please help.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (4 months, 2 weeks after post)

Dont let other peoples opinions get in the way of how you live your life. the most important thing is to make yourself happy and to love yourself. if they wanna hate, jus let them, that way your the bigger person and u stay true to yourself in your heart.
in life we hav both ups and downs..sometimes more downs than ups but the only thing you can do is hang in there..there will always always be someone worse off than you in the world, youre not alone
find some new friends and ditch the plastics! they are soo not worth it. concentrate on your studies and make something of yourself, the right person for you will come along one day!!
when youre older you will look back on this as it will have made the person you later become

keep smiling x x

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