girl help: im ugly, hes HOT how do i get him! - Help.com

Who on earth told you you wern’t pretty?!!!

Looks shouldn’t have to do with anyhing. What in the world is wrong with socienty these days? Everything seems to depend on what ppl look like. Does anyone care about personality anymore? These guy you say, you like because he’s hot? Is that the only reason? DO you actually think of how nice he is/isn’t? Do you care about anything else about him, besides the way he looks?

If you don’t see the beauty in your own self, then maybe you aren’t ready for a boyfriend. You have to be confident, be yourself, be who you are. I doubt you’ll go far with a relationship, considering the fact that you like him because his looks.

[this is just a small rant of what i think. sorry if it sounds a little rude.]

*society [not socienty]

I just think that looks shouldn’t come first. Honestly, if you love the personality, it makes the person look so much better, thats my opinion.

But lil_poppy, i wish ya luck.

do you like him, for status? or do u really like him, for him?

hmm okie dokie.. sounds awesome =]

there’s nothing more annoying then girls claiming they are ugly, when really.. nobody is ugly. Everyone is beautiful.

you really are pretty. Dont put yourself down, if you feel beautiful you will also look beautiful. Get in there!!!

Shoot! If I was little younger and in High School, I’d be all over you. Like a dog on a steak. I’d be on you like a cheap suit. I’d be on you like an illegal allien on a green card. Get the picture?

just because you think hes hot and too good for you and all that bollocks it may not be the reality. I spent years thinking this guy was too good for me and that he thought he had it all, but oneday I had a conversation with him and he said he thought he was ugly. It made me realise self esteem does not come from having good appearance, it comes from within. One thing I find is a lot of good looking people don’t have good self esteem, and personally, I don;t find it surprising if only looks are valued more in society than personality and who they are as a person. Its not going to make people feel good about themselves.

Everyone, including guys, love confidence so like yourself first and be urself. you are who you are, if you don’t like yourelf then you are unable to like him for who he is, because from what your saying I don’t get the impression you are as you said “im ugly, hes HOT how do i get him” It is like you are putting him on a pedestal and rating him more than you rate yourself. Do not compare him or yourself to anyone and then there will be no challenge (which is not needed). People say “it’s whats on the inside that counts” and I do think it’s true, I think it’s much more satisfying being liked for who I am than to only be accepted for my body.

Well, I have to say you’re certainly not ugly, you’re very pretty!! And I think he likes your size, the way he teases you about it, really… I think he likes you a lot!! … and everything else (like the hug)… he’s already interested!!

Keep doing what you’re doing, talk, be friendly, have fun…. seems like it’s going somewhere, IMO!

Like Spirited Soul said above, stop thinking he’s better than you are!! :) Don’t put him on such a pedestal… liking him is one thing, and it’s great to show you like him… but he would be lucky to have you too!! Remember that!!! You are a beautiful girl, but your real shining will come from the inside!!!

ok well im kinda in the same situation like im not the popular one and he is i i like him a lot yeah i need help on mine but get lots of sleep lol you seem to have bags on ur eyes so get lots of sleep and maybe go for some makeup not s zombie though lol just a little lip gloss some eye shadow little stuff like that and just wear who you are just dont change who you are for one guy that means its not the right guy hope i helped! =) sorry if i didnt lol im not the “best” on this subject i need help in this subject! =)
♥ Serina ♥

yeah get stuff like a really good mascara and a foundation like your skin tone. girls blink a lot so if you are wearing mascara, it will make your eyes more noticeable which is good espesh if u have nice eyes
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oh My God! you are not ugly at all!
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i’m ugly but i really want a guy to notice me but every time i look at a boy and they look at me back they do a werid face.