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blovebetchx

So my boyfriend broke up with me last night.

I’ve been crying non stop. We’re still going to be friends cause we were friends before the relationship but it hurts when you’ve fallin for them when you were friend then you get your relationship and as fast you get the relationship its ripped away from you. It hurts like hell. and didnt want it to end. but i know it was for the best.. I have to get my thoughts and head together and he has to get clean and stop doing the drugs before we can eventhink about getting back together. Thats the only reasonw e broke up was because he has to do iop[ intensive outpatient rehab]] and he has so much on his mind. And i understand it and the way i have been lately i cant be worrying about someone else. I’m just venting..

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lazoey 15 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (0 minutes after post)

oh darlin, rant all you want. did he explain to you why? I’m so sorry to hear that.

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lazoey 15 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

( why he did the drugs, that is )

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blovebetchx 6 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

He’s drugs before we started dating… he stopped for awhile but i guess he kind of just fell off the wagon. I can see him when he has time on the weekends but im not surewhen thats going tohappen because im not sure when i’m going to be able to handle it…

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blovebetchx 6 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (56 minutes after post)

That makes me have something to be happy about. Thank you =]!

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littlenick 218 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 24 minutes after post)

Maybe when he’s completely rehabed he will see the diamond that you are and will come back to if you still want him. Maybe by then you will find somebody who really deserves you and won’t need to be in rehab.

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blovebetchx 6 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (5 hours, 6 minutes after post)

as of right now. I dont want anyone else.

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littlenick 218 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (5 hours, 13 minutes after post)

Be by yourself for a while. Give it time. Things have a funny way of working themselves out.

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blovebetchx 6 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (5 hours, 14 minutes after post)

i hope so cause being heartbroken sucks.

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sanz170 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (12 hours, 52 minutes after post)

Im going through the same situation… well we havent broken up but i think we going to! he uses drugs all the time, he clearly loves his friends more than he loves me coz they way more important! hang in there girl and good ridance to bad rubish! you dont deserve a boy who uses drugs and cant control it… just like i dont!

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (14 hours, 12 minutes after post)

I have felt some of what you’ve felt and I can relate.

About a year ago, I was with a girl for 3 years and she cheated on me. I have had times where I have had no friends because I alienated many of them to hang out with my ex and more…

I can assure you that happiness in my life truly began once I found Jesus. I have stuck with him since. Ever since I found God, my life has gotten so much better! I met a girl who was way better than the previous one, we get along perfectly. I have made new friends and patched up things with most of the old ones. I’m doing well in college. My family’s financial status and mine has gone up greatly.

Things just seemed to piece together so perfectly.

Read these… Google them. I would advise you read them in the NIV(new international version) Romans 10:9, Matthew 11:28-30, proverbs 3:5-6, John 3:16, John 14:14

blovebetchx 6 #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (19 hours, 30 minutes after post)

Okay thank you.. He’s driving me insane. i’ve been going through alot and keeping it to myself. And last i need something that wasnt the best idea and he flipped on for that. then i said thanks for caring and forgot to put ”

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