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Domestic voilence help.

I am married with 6kids 2 are brand new! My husband decided to use my face as apunching bag after hanging out one night asking if I was having an affair. Mind you I was out with him and the twins are 6weeks old. How do I get away or make my life whole again? I can’t go anywhere now I’m not working yet so I have no money and my kids lives are here! I am just blown away at the thought of ending my marriage…..

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somanywalls_solittle offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 minute after post)

you have to tell someone, tell your mom or sister or your best friend…it’ll be hard, but you’ve got to do something, or who knows, he may start using the kids like he did you…

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Shakeybritches offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 minute after post)

First, did you have the police make out a report? Second, Check the yellow pages and churches for houses for battered women.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (28 minutes after post)

You have to get away, there are shelters like shakey said. I know your concerned about your kids lives being there. But seriously would you rather your kids see you getting hit or being hit themselves, or have them uprooted from the lives they know. I know you don’t want to think about ending your marriage, but would you want to married to someone who can’t trust you, even more so, someone you have to fear of getting upset and hitting you again.

you can do it. and it was never your fault

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Gloversville, NY, US | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 3 minutes after post)

im so sorry for what you are dealing with… as for not having a job or this or that.. that can not be an excuse for not leaving.. you need to call your local domestic violence and they will not only get you out of that house with your children… but they will force social services to help pay for your needs… how do i know? because im a 10 year domestic violence survivor.. please know that.. no matter how many sorries you hear, or the promises of it not happening ever again… are only words.. just to surpass the moment.. thats it.. and if this is the first time it has happened… trust me… IT WILL HAPPEN AGAIN.. please.. think of your children… think of your life…

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somanywalls_solittle offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (3 hours, 23 minutes after post)

hey if you need to talk, i have yahoo IM, msn messenger, aim, and myspace IM…so if you need me let me know…

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

Hi

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 month, 2 weeks after post)

you have to get out of there. I know it seems as if it is impossible. But it isnt worth risking you or your children. I know it is scary to be on your own. DOn’t ever think for one minute that maybe it will get better. This will continue and may even get worse. I have a child and I would run like hell if I even thought my husband would hurt either one of us. You need to contact your local churches and the police dept. They can help. The church can help find you somewhere to stay until you get on your own 2 feet. There are plenty of single moms out there…you arent alone. I know it must seem hard because you have so many kids but you will find help. You will fin dthat ppl are kind and gracious when soemone is in need. This is a life and death situation please get yourself out. Do you have any good friends or family that may be able to help?

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