Boy help: My mate can’t get over this boy and she is going to kill herself because he wont take her back. - Help.com

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Hey, for starters you realy need to be there for her and make sure she doesnt do anything that will transfer her pain to the ones that care about her. Can you fill me in abit more on the situation so i might be able to help more thanks jim

There have been a few issues like this lately.

No matter how hard it may be, she needs to get over him.

I know it’s hard, I’ve been there, broken hearts are painful. But killing yourself is never the way to handle things, that’s for chumps.

She needs to be strong. Breaking up, being rejected, and getting over your ex are all parts of life. Be there for her and help her get over this guy.

Whatever you do don’t leave her alone. Stay with her like glue on paper. She thinks is the end of the world, but it’s not. It’s only temporary. Pain like that usually subsides on its own. When she realizes how foolish it was to think about killing herself over somebody, she’ll laugh about it. Tell her to talk to a counselor, priest, sibling, friend–like you. But whatever she does she needs to let it all out of her system. Listen to her. She needs to talk about it and she needs someone to listen to her. Don’t let her drink or take drugs.