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i don’t know what to do with my life really.

i am so empty. i waste my time. all the time. i feel like i am loosing interest in everyone and everything. i can never do anything right. i feel like i’m incapable of being loved. on the other hand i feel selfish because i know am loved and i’m just complaining. i really don’t know what to do. i’ve become such a cold and bitter person. i have to make such a strong effort to even try smiling. i just…can’t. i have no motivation to even try to get out of this because its just getting worse and worse. i really don’t know what to do. i feel so alone.

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erick4 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (15 minutes after post)

You need to drink dreppression pills. but first talk to a doctor about it. It happend to me and am doing good now.

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lifeisabeach offline Verified User (6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months ago (17 minutes after post)

i’m not mentally depressed though. i just keep shutting myself in from everyone.

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HeIsDifferen offline Verified User (6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (37 minutes after post)

I felt like you too. It’s difficult
and empty, and weak, and hopeless,
because nothing in this world can
truly give you peace except Jesus.
If you invite Jesus in your life;
through prayer, attending a bible based
loving healthy church, and seek Him
in everything especially challenges,
He can help build you up.
Jesus can help you find peace.
Don’t you deserve to feel loved,
and accepted just as you are?
Don’t you deserve to build up
your character through challenges,
and receive all the blessings that
Jesus has already given to you?
All you have to do to receive His peace,
is seek Jesus. He advises not to worry,
or to be anxious. He will take care of that,
give all these negative things up to Him,
and ask for Hope, faith, forgiveness.
He will give it to you.
Be persistent and patient. No matter what happens,
He is walking with you
through this hardship now, if you accept
Him as your hero (savior). He loves you
sooooo much. The only way we can know that
is to try and know Him. Jesus is good. Even
though we make mistakes, He loves us.
And God has a plan for you. I thank Him
now, because I know He will bless you
and give you the strength to get out of
what you are feeling now. Be patient.
Your blessing will come in His time, not
ours. It is after we have grown from the experience,
when we realize a little bit about how
He has blessed you. Because that growth, that
character strength is what Our Father wants for
you. Jesus can give you the peace and purpose you seek.

lifeisabeach offline Verified User (6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months ago (42 minutes after post)

thank you so much. that was truly beautiful. i know i need a savior. everyone does. and he is everyones savior. its so hard with lack of interest. i know he needs to change my heart. its so hard. i just hold unto things and i just can’t forgive.

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*lilies offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 718 #
An Undisclosed Location | 6 months ago (1 hour, 51 minutes after post)

Hi there, sometimes, i complain. A lot. But just like you i also think i should complain less and start doing some things that would be productive to me and the people around me who support me through thick and thin. Sad moments come in the middle of happy events and i say that is completely normal.

We need to be less tough on ourselves and start less analyzing things. It is the beauty of small things that happiness is found. :)

I wish you well and i wish you more blessings. :)

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deezimmerman1 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (20 hours, 44 minutes after post)

I feel for you because i am going through the same thing. i am an orphan. i have no friends and im unlikeable. i too feel very alone in this world. i have a one year old son. his dad took him away from me, we are going through a custody battle. unfortunately i cant afford the exorbiant attorney fees. i feel like im slowly dying….pray for me.

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An Undisclosed Location | 6 months ago (20 hours, 48 minutes after post)

I will pray for you. I belive that God has a plan for you and that it will pass. After that post last night and how the responses came it changed me a little. I’m still feeling the same but I’m trying to give myself a different perspective.

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**Lady B** offline Verified User (11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 1 week ago (3 weeks, 4 days after post)

I used to have a friend like you,feeling so left out and worthless but guess what, she woke up one day and realized that if u keep dwelling on the past u will not see what the future holds.Trust me her future was a bright one, she started being motivated to doing things she would have never done and today she is a changed person. I think u should move on and turn to a new page in life, start over and im sure u will see a remarkable change in your life and the people around you as well.God bless and hope u do change ur life around.

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nunucalvi offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (3 months after post)

feel the same as you…only been feelin like this for the last 6 yrs… but i’m still stumblin along

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Def_junki offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 5 days ago (5 months after post)

I know how you feel everyday is a struggle for me.the simplest of tasks.it’s destroying my relationship and I’m fully aware of it yet completly powerless…imso sorry u feel this way as well

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