WHERE IS THE ROMANCE THESE DAYS?
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ppl dnt seem to appreciate the process of gettin to know a person these days, instead of appreciating the fact that someone whho is actually a decent person wants to spend time wit u and get to kno u on a deeper level, u either play them to the left or come on so strong tryin to jump rite into sex that it turns them off of u…where is the romance these days? where r the ladies who wanna take the long walks on the beach rather than jus jump to an expensive restaraunt? where are the ladies who appreciate a ***** who is doing something positive with their life? where are the ladies that u dont have to prove u can break em off in the bedroom first before they realize u are actually worth their time? where are the ladies who actually like when a ***** makes times to talk to them or spend time with them and are willing to make the time for the ***** too? where are the ladies, the real ladies, who aint spendin all they time chasin the triflin mofos and want a real woman in they life? where are the ladies who actually are willing to hold up their end of the relationship, realizing that its a partnership and that its ok for them to be willing to take care of they girl every once in awhile and not always have it be a one way thing? where are the ladies who are willing to see when someone is actually making an effort to change what they can to be wit u, and not constantly say that its not enough, it needs to be compromise on both ends? where are the ladies, who actually appreciate a ***** who is interested in how u are doin, how ur day went, and what u r thinkin? where are the ladies who can appreciate even the smallest gesture that shows a ***** is makin a real effort to try to make u happy? again i ask, WHERE IS THE ROMANCE?
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TUNNELVISION edited this post 3 years, 1 month ago. Read the previous text »
Broken heart.
Am i stupid or am i afraid?
I know i don’t want to be alone
I feel my heart is way too big for my body
Its like after she broke my heart into so many pieces
I picked all them up and put them back in her hands
I felt like i was standing on the edge of a cliff thinking
And i jumped………some people jump because they are fretful
But i jumped so i could see what it would feel like to fall
And me being stupid as i was falling i thought she would be there
Yeah i thought she would be there to catch me before i hit the ground
But instead she watched me fall and hit the ground
She sat there and watched me in pain….she heard me crying for help
But all she could say was im sorry.
Sorry?
What exactaly was she sorry for?
As i was falling from the top i never thought she would let me hit the bottom.
But she let me down just like before.
Now she got me guessing whether she really loved me or not
She broke my heart, my body, and my soul.
Even if i did ask her why she did this to me she couldn’t tell me
When i jumped i thought i was ” *falling* in love” but instead i fell in the pits of a broken heart.
TUNNELVISION changed the tags on this post: they were "Soul, Pain and nociception, Love, hand, heart, SAT, broken, cliff, Standing, Falling" 3 years, 1 month ago.
TUNNELVISION edited this post 3 years, 1 month ago. Read the previous text »
Overdose
When silence consumes me and the only way to numb the pain is to pray
Blast my pain away with beautiful melodies
And all the while I still feel that ache
That ache of not having her
The ache of not making love to her
The ache of not hearing her voice or her laugh
Seeing her smile in my memories makes me bleed
Knowing she’s happy with someone else makes me bleed
Suppressing this mess just causes more distress
To the point where I broke down
This is my confession of a love gone wrong
Not sure If I’ll choose to go on
…But I’ll never admit to her that I overdosed
TUNNELVISION edited this post 3 years, 1 month ago. Read the previous text »
Overdose
When silence consumes me and the only way to numb the pain is to pray
Blast my pain away with beautiful melodies
And all the while I still feel that ache
That ache of not having her
The ache of not making love to her
The ache of not hearing her voice or her laugh
Seeing her smile in my memories makes me bleed
Knowing she’s happy with someone else makes me bleed
Suppressing this mess just causes more distress
To the point where I broke down
This is my confession of a love gone wrong
Not sure If I’ll choose to go on
…But I’ll never admit to her that I overdosed
TUNNELVISION edited this post 3 years, 1 month ago. Read the previous text »
Overdose
When silence consumes me and the only way to numb the pain is to pray
Blast my pain away with beautiful melodies
And all the while I still feel that ache
That ache of not having her
The ache of not making love to her
The ache of not hearing her voice or her laugh
Seeing her smile in my memories makes me bleed
Knowing she’s happy with someone else makes me bleed
Suppressing this mess just causes more distress
To the point where I broke down
This is my confession of a love gone wrong
Not sure If I’ll choose to go on
…But I’ll never admit to her that I overdosed
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