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Well this is to anyone that wants to here it.

If you do thanks to you cause ya just made me feel better. Short story I lost my job that i did very well at 1month ago but hated! Have 2boys and a grandson. My job also involves my home and utilities as part of my income so now I have 5more days till I have to uproot my entire family and go where. I have medical conditions that make it hard to move work everything. Im basically a happy person a good person I love life and people and animals but we are totally broke and now no where to go well my brother said we could crash on his livingroom floor thru summer then hes gone selling his house again due to finances. My husband hates his job and works so hard but they are jerks and dont want him to have a life. We are christians and family oriented our life love and happiness togetherness is our world and thank goodness cause we poor cant afford more than redbox dvd rentals bike rides library and park for a while. But thats cool. Have bad credit from our hard times in past and they still haunting us we cant find a place because of a judgement without huge deposit if they even look at our app. need to be in a certain district of school for extra help my 7yr old needs for his sevear ADHD hes on grant and has to stay in district he allready in or loose it affects his meds and therapy and everything hes like borderline autistic.I have so many ailments at 45Ifeel and seem like a 98yr old woman. But inside im 23want to laugh play be active watch my kids grow have a great life with them live it ya know. This so sucks and I know we get thru it but how when so tired of the drama and stress financial problems cause of my bad health im limited what i can do for work or for how long lots of dr appt. for both my son and i.Help any ideas nice word wise words a joke make me laugh. Cause Im tired and frustrated and I cant sleep to stressed and got tons of packing to do sat and sun and find a storage unit for free LOL and get things moved to that and my brothers house to use for the few months we there SCREAM!!!!! Well i feel better already good scream and vent thanks for listing.

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Snar offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 41 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (5 minutes after post)

You are a strong woman and your husband and children are lucky to have you, stay strong, your plight has given me hope and strength. If you can be strong, I most certainly have nothing to complain about. Good luck, I hope that your due comes your way… your a good person.

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Felicity offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (6 minutes after post)

Your welcome and you are in my Prayers :)

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divanann offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (7 minutes after post)

Thanks so much for careing and shareing it helps.I keep on going cause Im not a quitter but it keeps getting harder all the time so much to all the details and man with a kid trying to keep things as normal as possible not easy thanks for the prayers and kind words.

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Snar offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 41 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (8 minutes after post)

One day your children will grow up and realize their mother was amazing to have been so strong for them and brought them through the hard times, giving them little pleasures and helping them enjoy their lives despite hardship. Tha will be your reward, and they will love you for it.

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divanann offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (14 minutes after post)

ya been here before actually my oldest is 24 in july and when I went thru my divorce from my 1st husband who became alcoholic and abusive we left with nothing and went camping all summer I stressed and found ways to survive then went to my church with an idea for a daycare I could run there during the week for moms without help so they could go movie lunch shopping whatever and just get a break. thought would make me feel better and it did then turned into a new job helping families of abbuse and got us on our feet. So we helped others and ourselfs and as scarey as it was my son spike and I still joke about the best summer ever the summer long camping trip and bonding with all the tent neighobors lol so I know it works out but hard while going thru it ya know. thanks

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (16 minutes after post)

dnt u wish we were all just rich? me too,an if i was i wouldnt b 4 long because so many other ppl deserve it more than me, plz dnt wrry cause all struggle is apart of payin dues but thats some real stuff ur goin thru atleast ur there 4 ur kids u dnt even kno how much that means to them ur a real MOM even i thank u 4 that

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Felicity offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (19 minutes after post)

I just remembered a site i joined that may give you more support.Afterall, We can never have enough friends.Daily strength.Enjoy:)

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divanann offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (54 minutes after post)

Yeah I hear ya all lots of people dont do the kid thing like they should. My family is my world, dont understand people that have them and dont raise them or care. It kills me inside. So sad. I love my guys and they do know that and that know matter what Im proud of them for just being who they are. I never had that want my kids to always know it makes a big difference. And by the way thanks and wuv u guys for listening and shareing it really does matter. If you havent been told or just need to hear it your great just the way you are and your special and importand to the world you all complete the world thats what makes it really work all of us that care and share and try just a little harder to make it a life of love and have a heart full of great emotions and feelings to help ourselves and all that are touched by us. God blesses us all and I know it but man oh man could ya stop all the tests of drama and stress in my face I got it the first time round LOL I know Iknow Im getting stronger ha ha

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (3 hours, 45 minutes after post)

I’m sorry to hear about your worries and troubles, if I were anywhere near I would have offered to help you with packing :)

Just keep smiling and life will bring some beautiful things too
You are young and I’m sure you have a beautiful family so don’t give up

Do you need a laugh?here is one lol
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sJy2Rb…

I hope everything would be fine soon

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (3 days after post)

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 week after post)

I am praying for you and your family. I am also going through a very hard time right now, but if we all help each other we can make it through this.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 week, 1 day after post)

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Good Luck.

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ChrVanBu offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (2 months, 2 weeks after post)

Hi,
Iam so sorry for your troubbles, I wish there were something I could do to help, but my fiancee & I will be on the road to family in 18 days, unemployed and praying heaven hears us, if it helps here, cut in line ahead of me on the prayer request.
I know it sounds like a joke, but the problems there are in the world, those angels have to be up to their ears trying to grt request processed. Hang in there.
All things work together for the Glory of God!

A friend

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (3 months, 2 weeks after post)

Isn’t that something? We oft-times get so used to the good life, that we forget where we come from.
Momma fed us the best way she could and before she knew it we were out there, grown, taking advantage of America’s wealth and success.
We oft-times fail to remember those who we slaughtered and took their land, or those we brought here chained together in boats and forced to do free manual labor, while we are shining. When the bills are paid and the children are happy.
We experience this success, not because of the troops our military trains. But because of the sweat, blood and tears Americans have plucked from the pores of the darker people of this planet.
It is time for them to shine, wouldn’t you agree? It’s time to give the natives back their land and the former slaves land of their own so they can become who they want to be.
After all that is why the Natives were slaughtered and their land taken, because there was not enough love in Europe to facilitate our desired rate of growth.
I am sorry you lost your health. But there are people who have lost their identity. Thats pretty bad when a people walk around not knowing who they are, where they come from or where they aught to be going.
The most beautiful thing about those people, is that they have not lost the art of forgiveness. If they had there probably would not be a white race in existance.
We should remember that the next time we open our mouths or prepare our fingers to type a complaint. They have suffered more than any European will ever suffer.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (3 months, 2 weeks after post)

Excuse me? Iam part Native american and part Irish, both sides of my ancestors have suffered and both sides have given to this country. Hate and feeling sorry for ourselves is not productive. DXLacy, fyi, it is not limited to race there will always be groups of people who spread ignorance and hate, I as a Wiccan have not forgotten that Witchs were burned at the stake! I don’t hate Christians because of the few that did it. I’ll send prayers fior you.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (3 months, 2 weeks after post)

ChrVanBu, you are absolutly right. Self pity and Self righteousness is no way for a people to overcome. I know of people of the Lakota tribe who have seperated their ties from the American Government, not because they hate the Government-but because they wanted to feel free. A people can not be free being dependent upon another people. However I also know of people of the Cherokee Nation who have excluded Black,Native Americans because they are Black.
So we all know that there will probably always be someone spreading ignorance and hate.
Read this, People who teach hate are people who exploit the pain of others! The way to end that is to teach each people to stand on their own and be strong.
The Black man and woman of America is a prime example. Their struggle for freedom and equality has made things alot easier for all of the other races and gender of this nation. But looking at them now, most of them are full of self hatred, they are irresponsible fathers, mothers, husbands and wives. It has been said that Black women are the number one people with AIDS. And it is known that Black men out number all other men who are incarserated in the prisons of America.
That is not teaching hatred. Thats teaching awareness.
Unless they rise we all will fall. For they are the foundation of all that we hold dear.
I said what I said in my previous reply in efforts to inspire you to have a little faith in your self. That is if you are the one with the health issues. Mabey just mabey you may come across on of those Natives or African Americans, that perhaps you will stop and give them a word of encouragement to be the best that they can be.
Thank you for being your best!

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