Love help: i think i fancy my best friend :(

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i think i fancy my best friend :(

ok.. so ima guy.. and i have this best mate.. a girl.. and we love eachother loads! but as friends.. but recently ive been gettin some feelings for her, and i look at her differently… but i know her sooooooooo well and if i told her that i like her.. she would DEFINETLY not be my friend anymore! what can i do?

i guess i want to be friends more than anything? i dont know :( help?

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erin 1 #
Augusta, GA, US | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 minute after post)

Why would she definitely not be your friend if you told her you liked her?!

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wordfarer 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (3 minutes after post)

^-Honest, she must be more understanding being such a good friend.

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erin 1 #
Augusta, GA, US | 1 year, 7 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Exactly.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 7 months ago (9 minutes after post)

she would think its weird that a friend fancies her

God's Smith 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (10 minutes after post)

okay i know this sounds weird… but back a long time ago i had the same problem. and we became unannounced gf/bf i was bf but if i had told her she would have slapped me in my face and never again talked to me. So what i did was i just didn’t say anything and now that I’m going to high school I’ll just wait till i can drive for proper dates. best thing to do if you cant drive yet is wait till you can or else you might not be happy till then and all those days and maybe years of unhappiness may lead to suicide so wait and keep them but don’t keep all of it bottled up else you might do something you would regret so talk to her just be yourself NEVER be someone your not never.

wordfarer 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (13 minutes after post)

Driving?

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Anonymous #
1 year, 7 months ago (17 minutes after post)

thesmither50 wrote:
okay i know this sounds weird… but back a long time ago i had the same problem. and we became unannounced gf/bf i was bf but if i had told her she would have slapped me in my face and never again talked to me. So what i did was i just didn’t say anything and now that I’m going to high school I’ll just wait till i can drive for proper dates. best thing to do if you cant drive yet is wait till you can or else you might not be happy till then and all those days and maybe years of unhappiness may lead to suicide so wait and keep them but don’t keep all of it bottled up else you might do something you would regret so talk to her just be yourself NEVER be someone your not never.

where did driving come from?

God's Smith 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (27 minutes after post)

to go to a proper date like the movies or to dinner. sides my family has a K-A car that is just hot

shefairy2000 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (2 hours, 41 minutes after post)

I think you should just start doing things a little out of the norm. Like “date” things instead of friend things. Ya know? Just a suggestion!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (2 weeks, 1 day after post)

Why not just test the water by like, i dunno, acting more friendly, and if she does the same, well done! If she tells you to back off, then … sorry mate!

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