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i think i’m falling too fast for a guy i like.

we’ve only talked a few times but i’m already getting attached. i’m not going to see him tonight even though i’d really like to because i don’t want to seem like a stalker or something, but the fact that i’m not going to see him for a couple days is seriously depressing me. i feel like it’s only going to get worse. this can’t be normal! how do i stop myself from falling too fast?

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erin offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Augusta, GA, US | 1 year, 7 months ago (3 minutes after post)

A few days without seeing him won’t kill you.
You need to stop thinking about him so much, think about what else you could do. Go for a walk, play a video game, or talk to a friend on the phone.
Don’t let this guy take over your life, especially since you’ve only talked a few times.

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shadowgr offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 1 year, 7 months ago (4 minutes after post)

why not talk to him and let him know that if he feels you are being to clingy that you really would like him to let you know? That way you’ll know when to back off and you don’t have to worry about it

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dedoda! offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (5 minutes after post)

stop.
smoking.
crack.
or just don’t talk to him for a while
and don’t try to thnk about him.SELF CONTROL.

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Serina the Best offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 25 #
US | 1 year, 7 months ago (15 hours, 21 minutes after post)

sorry i cant really help cuz im falling too fast too! ahh! lol jk anywayz sorry =( best of luck to u my friend lol

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