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Keep believing that she loves you until she tells you that she doesn’t. Don’t over think it.

the answer lyes within her.

Hi Kiwi… :)

Been thinking about you. Do you have time to talk just a bit?

Hey! I’m not here to bug you. Only trying to help.
Just want to know you a bit better.

Tell me want you’re into, what you like to do, what your interests are…

You like writting? Are you a good writer? What do you like to write about?

THat should be very interesting most of the time! Have you ever thought about writting a book, maybe? Something tells me you probably have a lot on your mind that would be of interest to a lot of people.

No really. If you like writting and you’re good at it, you might as well make something of it.

I just think you should be investing in yourself more. And not worry about what about people think too much.

You need to be doing something that really motivates you.

Well, no pressure. Just a suggestion. Think about it.
Doing something you really enjoy, being proud of what you accomplish would definitely make you feel better in any circumstances, in the presence of anybody. And eventually, instead of feeling insecure, afraid of loosing your girlfriend or whatever, you would feel stronger, becoming yourself, a pole of attraction to others.

Nine the Kiwi wrote:
doesn’t seem to accept that I’m broken.

Does this bother you? How does this make you feel… Her not being able to accept someone about you that you *believe* is true?

And to finish what I was saying, you could consider this a first step in the process of sorting yourself out, if you will.

K… I totally messed that one up, lets try again :-)

Nine the Kiwi wrote:
She doesn’t seem to accept that I’m broken.

Does this bother you? How does this make you feel… Her not being able to accept something about you that you *believe* to be true?

We can never be 100% convinced of the love that is given us or how long they will be around for us.It’s unrealistic.I’m sure you’ve heard about having ‘Cold Feet’ right before a wedding? It’s not the wedding per say, but the thought of having to maybe having to deal with losing that someone to divorce or death someday.But when we are vulnerable, by not being independent it makes it all the harder to trust.Maybe practice being more dependent on yourself.When we are co-dependent it puts an enormous amount of pressure on the other person.It’s unfair not only to them but to us too.If i’m in error or not making sense,I’m sorry.Its just what I see to be the core of the problem and I’m not myself today lol

dude, you should never reply on your girl so much, or on any person so much.
You need to be able to stand on your own two feet.
If you have to convince yourself that she still loves you then im afraid from personal experince, she doesnt.
I dont want to hurt you by saying this but you have to look at the facts and reality.
Keep your chin up.