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How do i know if ma wife /ex wife [we still married]

still loves me i do her n she knows that but she has since moved n seems t b gettin on ok this makes me feel bad

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Araz offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (41 minutes after post)

You said it seems like she moved on, right? I know this is probably not the answer you want, but I honestly believe the whole, “If you love her, set her free. If it was meant to be, she’ll come back”. Just make sure you constantly tell her how you feel at the same time. ;)

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pduell25 offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
US | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (45 minutes after post)

Yeah i no that n yeah not realy whut i want t hear but i no also that maybe the case i have 2 children with er too but when i whent t see er tha other day theres still quite a lot of eye contact with her i just love er so much all a real long story but have/am real bad without her drink drugs basicly not wantin t b ere any more i just wanna know if there r any tell tell sighns to know if she feels tha same way

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An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (50 minutes after post)

You need to show her that you can change (and actually change too! drugs/alcohol and little kids don’t mix). Join a support group. You sound like such a nice guy, she probably wants to be with you too. Maybe being apart is the only way she feels she can get through to you.

As for signs, when I’m crushing on someone/in love/etc, there’s a lot of eye contact going on like you said. I’m also flirty. How is she talking to you right now?

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pduell25 offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
US | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (56 minutes after post)

Not too bad i see the kids yesterday n today she rang on friday n sed am i gonna see em over tha week end they goin t ma moms on sunday so maybe saturday would suit me better [round her house] but knowing i could see em round ma mums on sunday today is there any thing in this?just so as u know am not a druggie or any thing well i dunno whut is one its not a every day thing i used t have a go at all ma mates f usin n now i do it too bad i know.

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An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (58 minutes after post)

oh, lol, my bad, i thought from your previous post that you maybe had a drug problem or something.

just stay close to her i guess.

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pduell25 offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
US | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

Hit it quite ard sumtimes but dont like tha label t b honest dont like labelin anyone/anything am not a every day proppa head or nuttin it just seems t help sum times

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An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

yeah, but remember that even though its helping in the moment, its hurting you in the long run.

blech, i sound like those drug free ads. its true though.

i don’t like labels too much either, but it seems like they are something you cant ever escape. nerd, preppie, stoner, punk… everywhere you go, people are going to label you and there’s nothing you can do about it. it just sucks.

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pduell25 offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
US | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 17 minutes after post)

Yup labels suk badly i hate em so much.

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