Love help: I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 months, but at the moment we are not talking as much as we used to. - Help.com

Coolgirlisemolike
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I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 months, but at the moment we are not talking as much as we used to.

He lives quite a long away which is hard for me. But latley he has not texted me as much or b4 he would go i love you so much to the ends of the earth.. but he does not do that, that much anymore.

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NiTRO offline Verified User (6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (2 minutes after post)

Talk to him about it. Ask him why he’s being distant to you or if something’s wrong. He’s your boyfriend; you should be able to talk with him, right?

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Tragically_Misled91 offline Verified User (6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (3 minutes after post)

no need to worry to much he might not mean to do this he could be busy or something. hav you tried txtin/callin him to tell him how much you love him?

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Coolgirlisemolike offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 26 #
GB | 6 months ago (4 minutes after post)

Yes thats true :) its just hard how far away he lives and i cant help him out as much. yes i have texted him on how much i love him. all the time. thanks for your help guys

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Tragically_Misled91 offline Verified User (6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (5 minutes after post)

how far away does he live?

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NiTRO offline Verified User (6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (7 minutes after post)

You are welcome. I hope things work out. =]

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Coolgirlisemolike offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 26 #
GB | 6 months ago (7 minutes after post)

well im around london or outside and he lives in yorkshire. we are meeting up again in 1 month but i just h8 waiting. lol

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Tragically_Misled91 offline Verified User (6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (10 minutes after post)

yea i can relate lol. well hopefully things are still good between you two n one day you wont hav to wait so long to see each other

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Coolgirlisemolike offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 26 #
GB | 6 months ago (13 minutes after post)

ok thank you :)

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An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (23 minutes after post)

And one tip dont say too much that you care, just now and then..

* hej twisted transistor, also here again haha *

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An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (1 hour, 7 minutes after post)

I think in a relationship its all or noting and, you go for it 100%
My feeling is if someone of the 2 doesnt i would end it.
Life’s to short for doubts and unclarity.

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An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (1 hour, 7 minutes after post)

ps I really like your avatar :)

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Coolgirlisemolike offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 26 #
GB | 6 months ago (1 hour, 19 minutes after post)

hey thanks :P i like yours too. Thanks for the tips.

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6 months ago (2 hours, 17 minutes after post)

i totally understand ya cos i felt d same way a few weeks back..my bf who lives far wudn msg or return my calls.. i was broken yea for i love him soooo much..n i thot may b it ws all gettin over.. my grief ws kllin me…n it felt sooo **** bad…
thn aftr a few days he gave me a call.. at first i thot i wudn answer but thn i cudn do tat to him…i love him ..n it ws thn tat i learned tat he ws away stuck in a very dangerous situatn tat der ws nothin he cd do.my relief ws beyond words n i felt stupid fr havin all those dumb doubts.. all i cd do thn ws thnk God fr he ws safe…
my negative thinkin totally wrecked me.. so my frnd plss try to b positive.. trust ur bf if u really love him..u duno wat his probs are..jus believe…love is pain…but wat is life without tis pain?!! pls dont worry

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An Unknown Location | 6 months ago (2 hours, 18 minutes after post)

i dont think its good to loose yourself in somebody else !
You need to look at yourself and your life.

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