girl help: I need help I am a Mother of two and a full time student. - Help.com

Oh wow that is very rude I am sorry I made mistakes and I am triing to change my life around why do people comment when they are just going to make rude comments I am not asking for money I am asking for a co signer on a student loan.

ĐaNi HaŦeS ŸoŪ wrote:
20 with 2 kids?
i aint givin you any money don’t think anyone else here will either

Nyx (imaginary) wrote:
I know you want to get out of your situation, but it may be best for you to start working at least part time and cut your classes back to part time until you can get better assistance.

The only way for me to get any help from the government is for me to be enrolled full time. I am curently looking for a job and I am not having any luck because of where I live in illinois and no where is really hiring. I have been filling out applications and following up with them for all most three months and I am not having any luck.

Nyx (imaginary) wrote:
A cosigner is someone who is willing to take responsibility for the debt if you fail to pay. No one is going to sign that for a person that they don’t personally know and trust. I’m sorry SD, but you need to find someone who knows you to help with a problem like that.

Yes I know that most people have someone that they know that has good enough credit to do so but unlike most people my family is poor and can’t even afford their bills let alone medical bills and ect and do not have good credit. I don’t have anyone that has sufficent credit don’t you think that I would have tried that before I posted something on here.

ĐaNi HaŦeS ŸoŪ wrote:
doubt anyone would do that eithergood luck with that

Well There might actually be someone it never hurts to not give up hope!!!

elatenradiate wrote:
Can any of your friends or family be cosigners?
Also, your college may be able to provide assistance. You could try contacting one of the advisors for help.

I have already talkted to the college and applied for every scholarship that I qualify for with them and they said my only other option is private student loan None of my family have good enough credit and the only one who dose my uncle won’t even co sign for his children and is very opinionated about the way I am always wrong for making mistakes having kids where I live my boyfriend everything I do is wrong to him because I am not his child and he is the same way to all of our family he acts like he is better than everyone else.

AnthonyLavin wrote:
I have no money being a poor wandering stranger yet I will offer you a poem,If only the world was round,And friends could be gently foundWrite in the margins, “I am alive”Sign your name and smile for a whileA joke to make the day pass easierIts called “Why the dinosaurs had small hands”Paelientologist 1: Did you ever wonder why these stupid dinosaurs had small hands?Paelientologist 2: YepPaelientologist 3: To help peeling bananas

Thank you for not being rude!!

ĐaNi HaŦeS ŸoŪ wrote:
I think you have your answer young lady

You know what you are very incon

Nyx (imaginary) wrote:
I’m not trying to be rude, I’m being honest. I am not wealthy and I don’t have any family or personal friends who are, either. If I needed a cosigner on a loan, I would be in big trouble. But when it comes to my schooling, since I am also a student at times, I go as I can afford it rather than run up a loan. One of my best friends is a single mother who goes to school when she can. She doesn’t have anyone to cosign on a loan, so she works and goes to school as she can pay for it. Also, if you’re a single mother with a 4.0 GPA, are you applying like crazy to scholarships - because you’re more than eligible for a full ride without having to take out loans at many colleges if your GPA is really that good. You’re a prime candidate for private and public scholarships. There are thousands of scholarships out there so I don’t believe for one second that you’ve applied for every one available. I don’t have as many qualifications as you do, and I was still able to get scholarships.

Well I am sure there are more but I applied for every one my school it self offers and I am all so registared with fastweb.com and have turned in many essays for scholarships as well. I had gotten one for 1000 but that was only for one semester

SD_DP888 wrote:

ĐaNi HaŦeS ŸoŪ wrote:
I think you have your answer young lady

You know what you are very incon

Nyx (imaginary) wrote:
I’m not trying to be rude, I’m being honest. I am not wealthy and I don’t have any family or personal friends who are, either. If I needed a cosigner on a loan, I would be in big trouble. But when it comes to my schooling, since I am also a student at times, I go as I can afford it rather than run up a loan. One of my best friends is a single mother who goes to school when she can. She doesn’t have anyone to cosign on a loan, so she works and goes to school as she can pay for it. Also, if you’re a single mother with a 4.0 GPA, are you applying like crazy to scholarships - because you’re more than eligible for a full ride without having to take out loans at many colleges if your GPA is really that good. You’re a prime candidate for private and public scholarships. There are thousands of scholarships out there so I don’t believe for one second that you’ve applied for every one available. I don’t have as many qualifications as you do, and I was still able to get scholarships.

Well I am sure there are more but I applied for every one my school it self offers and I am all so registared with fastweb.com and have turned in many essays for scholarships as well. I had gotten one for 1000 but that was only for one semester

And for you DANI HATES YOU YOU ARE VERY INCONCIDERATE

AnthonyLavin wrote:
How much are you looking for?

3 thousand

Yes a co signer

sayitsso wrote:
don’t be a fool wrap ur tool

But I am done with this if all you people are going to do is talk crap I don’t need any more negative in my life I have enough problems to deal with if any one is serious about helping then send and email.

ĐaNi HaŦeS ŸoŪ wrote:

SD_DP888 wrote:
But I am done with this if all you people are going to do is talk crap I don’t need any more negative in my life I have enough problems to deal with if any one is serious about helping then send and email.

Maybe you shouldn’t be a parent since your on here begging for money and i really doubt its for school probably for crack

I am not begging for money all I asked for was a co signer on a student loan and no I do not do any drugs I go to Kaplan University and I am going for my bachler degree so why don’t you just mind your own **** buissness

sayitsso wrote:
this is a scam there is a thing call government grants and u can get a full especially with ur GPA and the kids……..think bout this people…this person is scamming u

Ok and how would I go about getting one without having to pay money?

AnthonyLavin wrote:
I have a basic income from the social wellfare in Ireland called the Back To Education Allowance. I reeceive 140 euros a week. I am serious helping you with money.

Well Could you send me an email (email removed) and we will talk about this more that way I don’t have to deal with all these negative comments.

sayitsso wrote:
Kaplan is online university too….fake

There is nothing fake about Kaplan it is a real accredited University maybe you have the time to drive to class and sit there for hours but I can’t afford to pay someone to take care of my children while i have class

SD_DP888 wrote:

AnthonyLavin wrote:
I have a basic income from the social wellfare in Ireland called the Back To Education Allowance. I reeceive 140 euros a week. I am serious helping you with money.

Well Could you send me an email (email removed) and we will talk about this more that way I don’t have to deal with all these negative comments.

no one is getting scammed

well Anthony if you don’t want to help that is fine but I am telling the truth

elatenradiate wrote:
Kaplan is a real university.I have friends who took courses to help them write the MCAT. They also transferred from Kaplan into highly accredited universities. What we need to focus on is finding out how to help SD_DP888 find resources to fund her education. This website is about helping people.Even if SD_DP888 was making this up, she would still be in need of help in some way.Also, why is it that people only use the terms “hun” and “young lady” when they disagree with someone? I agree with people expressing their views, but I equate name-calling with psychological abuse.

Thank you

Kizmet wrote:
well i’m surprised at all the negativity I thought this was a site for help. I am in school and work full time and it is extremly difficult. Kaplan is a real school $3000 is about the right for a semester.My only question is if you GPA is 4.0 and you have children you usually qualify for federal aid. Usually they want to keep students doing that well and with children in school. There has to be something. I know some people at my school still attend and they owe the school money.

I do have a 4.0 but if you don’t want to believe me thats fine. Any information you could give me becuse my advisor has not been able to help me even with a 4.0.

Well any help or information with grants and how to not use the cites that just charge money would help. Like I said before I am on fast web.

AnthonyLavin wrote:
Call the old and bring the new
Let dawn light to see you through

Smile for the baby,
Laugh for the dream,

Another Joke:

How many bananas can you fit in a fish?

AnthonyLavin wrote:
Write your address and I’ll post you something each week. It won’t be much but it will help.

AnthonyLavin wrote:
You still there?

S. De Munn
402 Prospect ****
Kirkland IL. 60146
U.S.A

elatenradiate wrote:
What about contacting your local political representative for assistance?

I have not tried that but that is a great Idea thank you!

Thank you for helping Anthony your the only one who is willing to help and you don’t have a lot yourself